trippi1432 Posted September 16, 2010 Posted September 16, 2010 That's the healthiest thing I've seen you post, Trippi. Thanks YGG - Things are much better actually since I fired my shrink and went med free. I look back on some of my previous postings now and think "Good God, who was that person!!" I will admit that I still have a problem with loud, angry or hostile people...but I just remove myself from those situations. My life is now mine to control in more ways than one and that is freedom to me. No, it isn't about her anymore, but she tries to make it. LOL! So many irrelevant emails & texts & phone calls to update me about the kids. Oh, I know what you mean phineas, I get those texts too. The best thing is, you can pick and choose what to respond to. I only respond to the relevant ones and leave the rest. My ex and I got into some text slinging a couple of weeks ago over his bill collectors calling my mother's house. I got read the riot act before for giving them his cell and work number to call, so I told him I would gladly give them HIS mother's number to call. It's good to finally see him taking on some of the responsibility of raising his son as well as handling his own issues instead of passing them onto me. After 15 years with that man, I think I have "paid my fair share"....it's just not about him anymore.
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