tigressA Posted September 13, 2010 Posted September 13, 2010 I've been talking to C via webcam. He said he noticed me visiting him on OKCupid. I said, "Yeah, well, about that...because of our situation, I would prefer it if neither of us had our profiles up anymore." He said he understood, and that he only logged in because he would get a lot of different notification emails: so-and-so added you to their favorites, recent visitors, blah blah. He said he hadn't been looking for anyone else. We deleted our profiles together, via webcam. He told me what each page said as he went along in the process, so he did actually delete it since each thing checked out with me when I did it. It was really cute when I said, "Well, why don't you just disable it?" He said, "What, you don't think that things will work out with us?" After we deleted our profiles he said, "I am very glad that you opened up to me about this and were straightforward. It makes me very happy. I feel like things are going very well with us." I said, "I think so too." *Sigh*
Land Shark Posted September 13, 2010 Posted September 13, 2010 He probably created a brand new profile as soon as the call ended. You better search.
USMCHokie Posted September 13, 2010 Posted September 13, 2010 Hooray! :bunny: I'm glad things are working out.
sugarmomma Posted September 13, 2010 Posted September 13, 2010 There's really no way to tell since there are so many dating websites. That's why I don't like online dating. People are super deceptive. T I hope he's a stand up kinda guy and it all works out for you.
Author tigressA Posted September 13, 2010 Author Posted September 13, 2010 Thank you Haha, I feel rather giddy right now. It's hard to stop smiling.
Star Gazer Posted September 13, 2010 Posted September 13, 2010 After we deleted our profiles he said, "I am very glad that you opened up to me about this and were straightforward. It makes me very happy. I feel like things are going very well with us." I said, "I think so too." *Sigh* See what AWESOME things can happen when you have an open and honest conversation?!
ComeUndone Posted September 13, 2010 Posted September 13, 2010 Well that's great! Glad your conversation with him went well and that his reason for being on the forum was innocent. Best of luck to you both!
Star Gazer Posted September 13, 2010 Posted September 13, 2010 It's my new MO! :laugh: LS high five!!
Author tigressA Posted September 13, 2010 Author Posted September 13, 2010 LS high five!! Up high...down low...to the side...
JustJoe Posted September 13, 2010 Posted September 13, 2010 TA, I 'm very glad things worked out. Actually I'm not all that glad, because it means that our night out probably won't happen.
Author tigressA Posted September 13, 2010 Author Posted September 13, 2010 TA, I 'm very glad things worked out. Actually I'm not all that glad, because it means that our night out probably won't happen. Aw JJ, I still you. We can have a double date and play footsie under the table.
JustJoe Posted September 13, 2010 Posted September 13, 2010 Babe, there's a lot of things we could do under the table.
Author tigressA Posted September 13, 2010 Author Posted September 13, 2010 I cannot flirt with you like this anymore; I am a taken woman! :laugh: Ooh, it feels so lovely to say that. I am a girlfriend. His girlfriend. :love:
JustJoe Posted September 13, 2010 Posted September 13, 2010 I'm a "taken", man, but a little light-hearted banter hurts nobody. Another time , another place, who knows what could happen?
elaina Posted September 13, 2010 Posted September 13, 2010 Yeah TigressA that's just so TOTALLY AWESOME!!!! Much better than either of our "what if" scenarios huh? Three cheers for the happy couple yeah you guys!!! :bunny:
Author tigressA Posted September 13, 2010 Author Posted September 13, 2010 (edited) Yeah TigressA that's just so TOTALLY AWESOME!!!! Much better than either of our "what if" scenarios huh? Three cheers for the happy couple yeah you guys!!! :bunny: Aw, thanks Elaina, that's really sweet. Hehe, I'm all giggly at "couple". Ohh god I'm turning into a giddy idiot. When we were still talking on webcam I just could not stop smiling and he asked me several times what I was smiling at. I just said, "You." And that made him smile too. Ahh hahaha, it's starting. The mutual giddiness that makes you feel like your brain is going to fall out of your head and go on a holiday to Stupidland. And I'm just kidding JJ. I totally understand what you mean... Edited September 13, 2010 by tigressA
shadowplay Posted September 13, 2010 Posted September 13, 2010 Ahem. As I recall I was the one who introduced you to the idea of OKC, so I think you have me to thank. (j/k) Congrats.
Author tigressA Posted September 13, 2010 Author Posted September 13, 2010 Ahem. As I recall I was the one who introduced you to the idea of OKC, so I think you have me to thank. (j/k) Congrats. Yes, yes you were! I remember! Yes, I do thank you Shadow. Very much.
elaina Posted September 13, 2010 Posted September 13, 2010 Aw, thanks Elaina, that's really sweet. Hehe, I'm all giggly at "couple". Ohh god I'm turning into a giddy idiot. When we were still talking on webcam I just could not stop smiling and he asked me several times what I was smiling at. I just said, "You." And that made him smile too. Ahh hahaha, it's starting. The mutual giddiness that makes you feel like your brain is going to fall out of your head and go on a holiday to Stupidland. Love is to enjoy. Awww that's so romantic: "I just said, "You." And that made him smile too." Reminds me of Uncle Kracker's song "Smile"
JustJoe Posted September 13, 2010 Posted September 13, 2010 Aw, thanks Elaina, that's really sweet. Hehe, I'm all giggly at "couple". Ohh god I'm turning into a giddy idiot. When we were still talking on webcam I just could not stop smiling and he asked me several times what I was smiling at. I just said, "You." And that made him smile too. Ahh hahaha, it's starting. The mutual giddiness that makes you feel like your brain is going to fall out of your head and go on a holiday to Stupidland. And I'm just kidding JJ. I totally understand what you mean... Hey, Stupidland is a great place to be. A couple of hours ago, Babe and I were eating MM's off each other, so I hear you.
Author tigressA Posted September 13, 2010 Author Posted September 13, 2010 Oh I wouldn't say I'm in luuuuurve (I say luuuuurve, haha) just yet. Definitely infatuated though. Oooh, I can't wait to see him again. His eyes and his hair and arms and legs and...feet...and that smile that makes me wanna just die. Oooh, he's a dishy bloke.
JustJoe Posted September 13, 2010 Posted September 13, 2010 Dishy bloke? I haven't been called that since Liverpool 2007.:laugh: A veryyy hot Brit girl called me that. My response was "Huh?"
elaina Posted September 13, 2010 Posted September 13, 2010 Oh I wouldn't say I'm in luuuuurve (I say luuuuurve, haha) just yet. Definitely infatuated though. Oooh, I can't wait to see him again. His eyes and his hair and arms and legs and...feet...and that smile that makes me wanna just die. Oooh, he's a dishy bloke. Lol ok not in luuurve (yet) but you sure are in like!
shadowplay Posted September 13, 2010 Posted September 13, 2010 Oh, if that's him in your avvie with you, he's a cutie!! I want a bigger picture, though.
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