Will he come back?

[Paigems]

Hi everyone, I'm new here, and my name is Paige. I was in a long distance relationship with an amazing guy whom I met online. Well, this past Friday he left me because he said the distance was just too difficult and it felt like a very important part of his life was missing, and he was just too stressed about it.

 

Ok, let me rewind a little though. We met over a year ago, and really hit it off, talking for many hours each day. Last Christmas I admitted to him that I had feelings for him, and he was hesitant because of the distance. He then became distanced for a month and we didn't talk nearly as much. Then he came back and later told me he distanced himself because he had feelings too but he didn't want to acknowledge them. Soo, we started dating this April. The distance was tough, but we talked for many hours each day, and we talked about our futures together, and even how we felt like we would move in together someday until we were very old.

 

Oh, and btw, my plan to get to him was to transfer to the college by him next year so we could be together.

 

Well, like I said on Friday he left me out of the blue. I never expected it because he promised me he wouldn't leave me, and I really, truly believed him. Right before he left he said he didn't know how he would stop talking to me, and that maybe we would see each other one day where he lives.

 

So now I'm just terrified he's not going to come back. I feel like maybe he will come back to his senses and miss me, but I don't know, and it's so scary to me. I'm still going to try to transfer to the college by him, I'm not going to just give up because then I would regret it for the rest of my life. I really need opinions on whether you think he will come back though...

 

Thanks to everyone who took the time to read that, and to anyone who takes the time to help me with my pathetic situation.

 

Paige

[LisaLee]

Have you two met IRL?

[Romance]

It always feels like the end of the world at first. It'll get better, don't grovel over some guy for months. It will take time to get over it but you'll come out strong.