Torime89 Posted September 12, 2010 Posted September 12, 2010 So my co workers and I got to talking about my ex, of 2 months now, because he came into my work to ask me something. Told them how we are broken up and we were engaged and blah blah blah and how I want us to get back together and really work on our relationship but he just wants to be single and go to work and hang with his friends and not look for anybody else to be with for a while. But anyways my co workers all told me that in order to get him back you pretty much gotta ignore him completely like he just dont matter to you anymore. Even when you gotta see him. Just wondering...does this actually work??? One of my co workers said it worked for her and her, as of last week, husband. Give me your thoughts! =)
Silvaria Posted September 12, 2010 Posted September 12, 2010 Heh...you're going to get a huge variety of opinions on that. A lot of people feel that NC (no contact) is only for the purpose of allowing YOU to start healing. Others think it can help get your ex back by causing them to miss you. This link may help: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t81399/ Good luck with whatever you decide.
DustySaltus Posted September 13, 2010 Posted September 13, 2010 As someone who went through a broken engagement I can tell you that unless they come back to you and tell you they are willing to do whatever it takes to make it work, it doesn't matter what method you use to "get them back". Why would you want her back after doing something like that to you?
skydiveaddict Posted September 13, 2010 Posted September 13, 2010 I would agree with Alpha, it can work, but rarely. But it's the only shot you have at getting your ex back.
Don Ho Posted September 13, 2010 Posted September 13, 2010 yes it works Oh my! Alphamale is in da house!
dextm Posted September 13, 2010 Posted September 13, 2010 It worked for me but now there's the god damn ex in the way to make things more complicated. Almost wished I never had a "second chance".
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