brainblox Posted September 12, 2010 Posted September 12, 2010 Where is the guru Don Ho when you need him ? it's just not fair !
TaraMaiden Posted September 12, 2010 Posted September 12, 2010 tinybear5, You cannot receive PMs or send them until you have posted over 100 times AND been a member for over a month. And if you post e-mail addresses or contact details on line, your post will be deleted. It contravenes guidelines. it's also advisable to post in proper English and not use text-speak or abbreviations, because this isn't a mobile 'phone, it's a forum. That's also in the guidelines......
Author tinybear5 Posted September 12, 2010 Author Posted September 12, 2010 well you guys can help me answer this. im just out of a 2 year relationship..he broke up with me. If i was annoyed when he called me or text me, if i cheated on him, went out on dates with other guys,barely hung out with him,contemplated ending it with him,but he was so in love with me...does anybody think that subconiously i actauly wanted this? i mean i did love the guy, i loved how he was husband material...like i could marry him one day ; he was perfect . But i also never had a REAL relationship. im 21 yrs old,hes 22. he was my first everything... i always felt like i needed to see what was out there but i never wanted to end it with him. but i cant help but think, maybe i wanted this and im just upset b/c he did it not me ?
GrayClouds Posted September 12, 2010 Posted September 12, 2010 well you guys can help me answer this. im just out of a 2 year relationship..he broke up with me. If i was annoyed when he called me or text me, if i cheated on him, went out on dates with other guys,barely hung out with him,contemplated ending it with him,but he was so in love with me...does anybody think that subconiously i actauly wanted this? i mean i did love the guy, i loved how he was husband material...like i could marry him one day ; he was perfect . But i also never had a REAL relationship. im 21 yrs old,hes 22. he was my first everything... i always felt like i needed to see what was out there but i never wanted to end it with him. but i cant help but think, maybe i wanted this and im just upset b/c he did it not me ? Yes but it was not sub-conscience, you consistently and continually CHOSE to behave in a manner you knew was hurtful and disrespectful. Hopefully you will look closely at this experience to become a better person, one who is willing to be honest with themselves as well as others. Understand unless you behave as "wife" material no one is going to see you being so.
Am4Real Posted September 13, 2010 Posted September 13, 2010 it's also advisable to post in proper English and not use text-speak or abbreviations, because this isn't a mobile 'phone, it's a forum. That's also in the guidelines...... Amen and thank you!!
Don Ho Posted September 13, 2010 Posted September 13, 2010 Yes but it was not sub-conscience, you consistently and continually CHOSE to behave in a manner you knew was hurtful and disrespectful. Hopefully you will look closely at this experience to become a better person, one who is willing to be honest with themselves as well as others. Understand unless you behave as "wife" material no one is going to see you being so. Tru dat!
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