dispatch3d Posted September 11, 2010 Posted September 11, 2010 So I have been getting along pretty good with all my roomates for a while until just recently. We'll call the guy Kent. Kent never really gets mad, as I never really get mad at him. This is after living with him for ~1 year. Then ~1 month ago he got pissed at me for telling him to clean stuff. Fair enough, I was kind of dickish. Then a week ago he gets angry because I don't feel like lending him my itrip anymore (since he feels he has a right to it) which his girlfriend was borrowing at the time. Keep in mind this is a guy I have had 0 fights with in ELEVEN MONTHS. There is no way this is typical behaviour. So I know something is up. Que the girlfriend being overly nice to me slightly after this. Uhhhhh starting to catch on. Then we get in an "argument" and Kent proceeds to tell me I have terrible communication skills and me and the gf just shouldn't talk. Okkkkayy. Everytime she gets "angry" about something she goes upstairs (and mentions absolutely nothing about it). So it's basically impossible for me to figure out why she's mad. I'm not gunna ****ing sit around for an hour a day GUESSING why she's pissed. Anyhow, it revolves around these "arguements" that happen maybe once every week or something. If that. I feel like I'm not allowed to express any opinion anymore. Like I'm in the family room, she looks up the weather, and I say "uhhh kent's gf your boring. You're looking up the weather." And I'm told to stop picking fights. Uhhhh **** off I can't be positive with everyone 100% of the time? If she can't handle being told looking up the weather is lame that's not my fault.... Most of the people she's lived with she has since moved out from and now hates them for one reason or another. She has one other real friend besides the bf, that's it. I'm pretty sure this is 80% her 20% me, possibly more. She gets pissed and leaves...frustrating to be held accountable for something I don't know what it is. Not even comfortable being in the main room anymore cause I'm just going to catch **** for absolutely nothing. And I'm pretty insulted about the communication thing too (his comment - seriously **** off man).
TaraMaiden Posted September 11, 2010 Posted September 11, 2010 Oh good grief.... What are you guys.....ten??
Not the love ace Posted September 11, 2010 Posted September 11, 2010 Yeah, ignore it. You guys are adults if they want to be kids let them.
Author dispatch3d Posted September 15, 2010 Author Posted September 15, 2010 Yeah, ignore it. You guys are adults if they want to be kids let them. humm seems like good advice. Everytime she gets pissed she just goes to his room. Not a way to deal with problems. Now she's pissed and I have no clue why because she's never expressed anything negative directly towards me or ever communicated "I hate when you do this". I can't fix what doesn't exist. My only solution right now is to just leave them be. Still not taking things the same way I used to (unfortunately)...
that girl Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 This girl sounds immature. She should tell you when she thinks you are being rude. But this is a little rude Like I'm in the family room, she looks up the weather, and I say "uhhh kent's gf your boring. You're looking up the weather." And I'm told to stop picking fights. Uhhhh **** off I can't be positive with everyone 100% of the time? If she can't handle being told looking up the weather is lame that's not my fault.... I get how it could have been a joke, but if someone is offended by a joke, it is up to the teller to apologize. If you don't know that is one thing, but when someone says "That is picking a fight" the mature response is "Sorry, I was just joking, I wasn't really saying you were boring."
Author dispatch3d Posted September 22, 2010 Author Posted September 22, 2010 This girl sounds immature. She should tell you when she thinks you are being rude. But this is a little rude I get how it could have been a joke, but if someone is offended by a joke, it is up to the teller to apologize. If you don't know that is one thing, but when someone says "That is picking a fight" the mature response is "Sorry, I was just joking, I wasn't really saying you were boring." I really can't even begin to apologize for all the "fights" I pick. For example, today I decided to eat popcorn in the living room. Apparently I was eating it loudly - I did point out it was a loud food! Which is what I mean. She just gets upset for random things in my direction. I'm not perfect and don't pretend to be. She has to put up with a certain amount of **** from everyone. This includes eating popcorn/apples/etc. loudly. lol....
blueyedgrl85 Posted September 22, 2010 Posted September 22, 2010 For example, today I decided to eat popcorn in the living room. Apparently I was eating it loudly - I did point out it was a loud food! Which is what I mean. She just gets upset for random things in my direction. I'm not perfect and don't pretend to be. She has to put up with a certain amount of **** from everyone. This includes eating popcorn/apples/etc. loudly. lol.... Is Kent's gf also living with you? (ie: paying rent, etc.)? If not, just say that since you live there and are paying rent, you can eat your popcorn as loudly as you want to. If princess gf doesn't like it, she and Kent just either have to deal with it or go to her place. Overall it just sounds like too much togetherness and everyone starts ruffling feathers or they are just bored and like to cause drama.
that girl Posted September 23, 2010 Posted September 23, 2010 For example, today I decided to eat popcorn in the living room. Apparently I was eating it loudly - I did point out it was a loud food! That is ridiculous, but I have a feeling you have built up a lot of bad blood with this girl and she really dislikes you. I think you have a couple of options- 1- Just avoid them and ignore any comments. 2- Be nice as can be and see if the ice eventually melts. 3- Get bitchy right back to her, which will just led to more drama. 4- Move
Author dispatch3d Posted October 25, 2010 Author Posted October 25, 2010 Is Kent's gf also living with you? (ie: paying rent, etc.)? If not, just say that since you live there and are paying rent, you can eat your popcorn as loudly as you want to. If princess gf doesn't like it, she and Kent just either have to deal with it or go to her place. Overall it just sounds like too much togetherness and everyone starts ruffling feathers or they are just bored and like to cause drama. Haha I enjoy the princess girlfriend part. It's definitely at least a little true, considering the bull**** I put up with. Anyhow, I probably wouldn't say that to them just because it would cause more problems. I've just decided to ignore negative comments and chill out in my little world outside of her complaints about how I eat popcorn, or whatever. Man these are the pettiest complaints I've ever read. Lol. Looking up the weather being boring and eating popcorn loud. It is kinda funny.
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