Custody Affidavits

[Dad_of_2_great_boys]

Update: Wife and I have our temporary hearing Thursday. The last several days have been all about preparation for me so I haven't updated in a while. Maybe tonight.

 

My question is regarding the people and relationships you end up with post divorce. I know a few of the individuals that will be contributing to my wife's file with supporting affidavits. My concern is they have only heard her side. How do you end up dealing with these people? I don't have much respect for them right now if they believe she is a competent mother. The more I learn about her affairs, the more I believe they were part of a depression mid-life crisis or mental melt down.

Do I have the right to contact them and share my side or at least hear what she has told them?

I would like to do it preemptive to them submitting there letters but I probably won't. I just don't think I can deal with them in the future and will see them regularly through our sons' activities.

I was also considering an email that just states " I, and I believe my wife, want what is in our children's best interest. I ask that that be your consideration as well. For those of you who have any questions I am available to answer the honestly and openly.

[Darth Vader]

Update: Wife and I have our temporary hearing Thursday. The last several days have been all about preparation for me so I haven't updated in a while. Maybe tonight.

 

My question is regarding the people and relationships you end up with post divorce. I know a few of the individuals that will be contributing to my wife's file with supporting affidavits. My concern is they have only heard her side. How do you end up dealing with these people? I don't have much respect for them right now if they believe she is a competent mother. The more I learn about her affairs, the more I believe they were part of a depression mid-life crisis or mental melt down.

Do I have the right to contact them and share my side or at least hear what she has told them?

I would like to do it preemptive to them submitting there letters but I probably won't. I just don't think I can deal with them in the future and will see them regularly through our sons' activities.

I was also considering an email that just states " I, and I believe my wife, want what is in our children's best interest. I ask that that be your consideration as well. For those of you who have any questions I am available to answer the honestly and openly.

 

 

Contacting anyone on your STBXW's side may be a bad move on your part. Have you talked with your Lawyer about it? Always consult with him before you do anything!

[Dad_of_2_great_boys]

Contacting anyone on your STBXW's side may be a bad move on your part. Have you talked with your Lawyer about it? Always consult with him before you do anything!

 

Good advice.

 

Fortunately, the people aren't that close to me.

I'll let them discover her true self in due time.

I guess I just want to know what lies she is telling them.

I see how I could waste my energy doing that because there will be more people in her life down the road that she will probably lie to as well. I just need to let it play out and be done with it.

 

I need to focus on my boys.

[carhill]

Judges know people lie, distort and exaggerate.

 

Let your lawyer handle it.