longlegzs80 Posted February 22, 2004 Posted February 22, 2004 Okay, just wondering if I end up getting really involved in this new guy, I was wondering should I ever tell him I used to be a dancer? I did it for a month or so when I was at school, so is that really important for him to know if we get really serious? Of course we are not at that stage yet. But just curious. What are your ideas?
Darkangelism Posted February 22, 2004 Posted February 22, 2004 Yeah, no secrets, but you don't need to tell him for awhile.
UCFKevin Posted February 22, 2004 Posted February 22, 2004 Nah, I don't think you need to tell him. It's not necessary. It's not lying if you don't just give up info. If he asks if you've ever been a stripper, though, tell the truth, but what are the odds of that? Otherwise, it shouldn't matter.
Author longlegzs80 Posted February 22, 2004 Author Posted February 22, 2004 Thanks boys. I have to agree with KEVIN, I will only tell him if he asks which I really really would think it would be odd if he did ask. But I have no problems with telling him too. Of course I would not come straight out and say it, but if we keep up the dating thing.
Vivid_29 Posted February 22, 2004 Posted February 22, 2004 Don't tell him, unless he asks you. I certainly don't think that you being an exotic dancer would be a strike against you. You know, he may actually get turned on by it. One day, he may ask you to strip for him in the bedroom! Could be interesting! ~V
Author longlegzs80 Posted February 23, 2004 Author Posted February 23, 2004 VIVID: Yeah, I could see myself doing alittle strip tease and it would be so mind blowing he would not know what to do with himself. It would be good times. But, yeah, I am not going to mention anything. If it comes up, that is fine, if it don't it don't. I would tell him the truth if he asks, because I am not ashamed of what I did. I just would not do it ever again. Anywho, thanks everyone for replying.
dyermaker Posted February 23, 2004 Posted February 23, 2004 I could see how that would bother me, more than turn me on. It's not something that's any of his business though, you don't need to tell him.
Author longlegzs80 Posted February 23, 2004 Author Posted February 23, 2004 Why should he be bothered by it if I do tell him? I won't tell only if he asks but whats the big deal?
Arabess Posted February 23, 2004 Posted February 23, 2004 To some men it would matter....to other's it wouldn't. Just depends on the guy. If I saw someone for any period of time though, I would rather tell him than him hear it elsewhere.
Vivid_29 Posted February 23, 2004 Posted February 23, 2004 Originally posted by Arabess If I saw someone for any period of time though, I would rather tell him than him hear it elsewhere. Why Arabess? Did you used to be stripper? ~V
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