rebeccamay Posted September 11, 2010 Posted September 11, 2010 The guy I know is my true soul mate broke up with me because he cant commit to marriage and feels I deserve more. I already posted something on here about it. Well the thing is I want him back; I would rather be with him than with some other guy married. I realize I need to stop comparing myself to others and realize this is the path my life has taken. He's a great guy with three kids I love and I am heratbroken. I broke NC to try and convince him I will stop with the pressure and I am not settling just realizing whats truly important. I need him back in my life. What do I do? I know he loves me; we have been together three years and he was crying during the breakup over the thought of me being gone forever. HELP!
Don Ho Posted September 11, 2010 Posted September 11, 2010 Here's the problem. As long as you continue thinking that he's your "soul mate, that you "need" him back and that he's the perfect "One" you will be trapped in your misery. How long has it been? A year? How's that working for ya? I think you have an obsession with him. Some other LS members suggested this book, maybe you should check it out: http://www.amazon.com/Obsessive-Love-When-Hurts-Much/dp/0553381423/ref=pd_cp_b_3 Good luck!
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