9Lives Posted September 11, 2010 Posted September 11, 2010 (edited) I know a lot of us are hurting but you got to realize that you are BIGGER than this. if someone is treating you like garbage or playing you for a fool or kicking you to the curb or tell you to go screw yourself I don't want u no more...then okay fine. you know what I discover after 3 years of hoping, wishing, praying, crying, and all that jazz? that when you go ahead and REALLY let go..something else good comes in your life. that's how life is only if u let it. we don't have to be tied to the past..that person who gave up walking papers. its hurts at first but after while..the sun shines..so if its time to go, and you did all you could, and its not working. like the song says..and the beat goes on! I bet you STILL got your swagga..that sexy swag. for sure! Edited September 11, 2010 by 9Lives
Trovador Posted September 11, 2010 Posted September 11, 2010 Preach on, brother! I don´t know why we fear to be single... more time for ourselves... for growing up, for learning, for being free... and then, when we are in peace people are attracted to us and then we can love them back without being needy and insecure... But part of letting go of someone is to wish them the best, may they find their own path in life... As I say, no regrets, no hard feelings, no emotional ties...
skydiveaddict Posted September 11, 2010 Posted September 11, 2010 we don't have to be tied to the past..that person who gave up walking papers. its hurts at first but after while..the sun shines..so if its time to go, and you did all you could, and its not working. like the song says..and the beat goes on! I bet you STILL got your swagga..that sexy swag. for sure! That's for
Author 9Lives Posted September 11, 2010 Author Posted September 11, 2010 Preach on, brother! I don´t know why we fear to be single... more time for ourselves... for growing up, for learning, for being free... and then, when we are in peace people are attracted to us and then we can love them back without being needy and insecure... But part of letting go of someone is to wish them the best, may they find their own path in life... As I say, no regrets, no hard feelings, no emotional ties... 9LIVES is a girl...a woman...LOL! I'm sexy, I'm fly, I'm all girl. T you are so funny. I have to admit, I aint wishing my ex ****! its been hell so I can't give him that. he turned my world upside down and put a mountain on top of me. I was suicidal for a while. I suffered like hell for months and month. all I wish is that I don't go thru this kind of hell ever again. that's real talk!
Nikki Sahagin Posted September 11, 2010 Posted September 11, 2010 I agree. I can understand WHY its so hard to let go but don't be afraid to be FREE. Its funny how we are all so comfortable to be tied down and trapped; to people, things, emotions, thoughts - just let go and let yourself be free, life will open up to you and so will people!
Author 9Lives Posted September 11, 2010 Author Posted September 11, 2010 I can see why it is hard to let go too but some of us have no choice. the person on the flip side of the coin has said the us is over. it hurts like hell. we are not the ex human toy be jack around afterwards. you don't need friendship right away. get off their fb page. don't settle for anything falling off the table. on and on sometimes with the ex. its not easy. not at all. but if u just say okay that's fine. you will discover a new you. someone you love and respect again. stronger and better unless u just go do a bunch of dump sht! make it a better day not a complete nightmare. its already got u feeling all fked up.
Sambo Posted September 11, 2010 Posted September 11, 2010 (edited) 9 :):):):) I love you girl ! You not only have you got your roll back but your also 10x stronger ! Let some new punk try and mess with this woman of strength and power now ..... there ain't no way that's happening ever again! You need to call your ex up and thank him because his bs turned you into a new woman and she is BEAUTIFUL, STRONG and AMAZING. Edited September 11, 2010 by Sambo
Author 9Lives Posted September 11, 2010 Author Posted September 11, 2010 9 :):):):) I love you girl ! You not only have you got your roll back but your also 10x stronger ! Let some new punk try and mess with this woman of strength and power now ..... there ain't no way that's happening ever again! You need to call your ex up and thank him because his bs turned you into a new woman and she is BEAUTIFUL, STRONG and AMAZING. LOL. thanks Sambo. I was this way before I met my ex. I thought he was the truth and let my guards all the way down. I'm normally not that way. I trusted him so much. I thought he really loved me and we was going to build a fun and exciting life together. I was very happy. I was in so deep I couldn't get out. so I did learn that love is blind. I don't know if I believe that someone who says they love me will continue to love me. people split up all the time. so it was a wake up call about that love thing. they may love u for 6 months or 6 years but lasting love is to be determined. hearing someone say they love me now I would be like ...okay that's nice...how long?, how deep?, how real?, how much? I don't see love the same. but that's me
Username37 Posted September 11, 2010 Posted September 11, 2010 Good thread! Now...some happy music! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-FjSchBoch0&feature=related Because when we're all over them, we will be this
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