xx.Kael.xx Posted September 11, 2010 Posted September 11, 2010 I'm already dreading the upcoming holidays, XD but I'm sure it'll be great for the most part. Just preparing myself for that Xmas depression most get. Especially after a split,
PegNosePete Posted September 11, 2010 Posted September 11, 2010 I'm not. I'm looking forward to no arguments about whose parents to visit. I'm glad I don't have to buy an expensive gift. I'm happy I get to watch the film of my choice. I'm lying of course, it will be crappy. But think positive, right?!
ShannonMI Posted September 11, 2010 Posted September 11, 2010 I'm already dreading the upcoming holidays, XD but I'm sure it'll be great for the most part. Just preparing myself for that Xmas depression most get. Especially after a split, I'm dreading it as well. Thanksgiving and Christmas. I always spent those holiday's with my ex's family and mine too of course, but I'll miss his family this year. I was very close to them. Now the new girl in his life gets to enjoy the holidays with his family. It makes me just a little bit jealous. I have my own family to spend the holidays, but it's going to be rough.
Billie The Puppet Posted September 11, 2010 Posted September 11, 2010 It will be hard for me too as X-mas has a history with me and My ex. We got together on Dec 8th 3 years ago. I always have Xmas with my mother who is across the country, So my Ex missed me so much when I took off for 2 weeks even though we had just got together, The following year she came with me The year after I went alone with the same sentiments of the first This year was the year I was going to break my tradition with seeing my Mother and spend it with my Ex's family. My Ex even knew this. However I can't blame her she is going to hold onto a failing relationship just for up coming Holidays. She fell out of love with me and even though it hurts it is her right.
Username37 Posted September 11, 2010 Posted September 11, 2010 I'm already dreading the upcoming holidays, XD but I'm sure it'll be great for the most part. Just preparing myself for that Xmas depression most get. Especially after a split, Same here. I'm not looking forward too: November 14 (Day we started going out) Halloween (Our holiday) Christmas (celebrated 2 with her) New Years (no new years kiss) VALENTINES! (obvious reasons)
ShannonMI Posted September 11, 2010 Posted September 11, 2010 Same here. I'm not looking forward too: November 14 (Day we started going out) Halloween (Our holiday) Christmas (celebrated 2 with her) New Years (no new years kiss) VALENTINES! (obvious reasons) Yea Valentine's day is gonna suck. Last Valentine's day my and ex and I had a wonderful day. He gave me a dozen roses and a beautiful card. We went out to dinner and a movie. Then just a few short months later he dumped me. Ugh! I hate it.
Billie The Puppet Posted September 12, 2010 Posted September 12, 2010 We should Just come on LS for the holidays and talk with each other!
ShannonMI Posted September 12, 2010 Posted September 12, 2010 We should Just come on LS for the holidays and talk with each other! I probably will. I'm sure I'll still be feeling like sh*t come December. And hell, even February too.
D-Lish Posted September 12, 2010 Posted September 12, 2010 After a particulary painful break up mid december, I picked up and took off on December 22nd to Florida by myself for x-mas. I spent x-mas day on the beach. I met so many people down there, and the change of scenery was so therapeutic. I ate a steak for x-mas dinner and then went to a huge x-mas party with the local bar staff on the island. It did me good.
HeavenOrHell Posted September 12, 2010 Posted September 12, 2010 Xmas is sh*t full stop I wish I lived somewhere like Holland where everything doesn't grind to a halt, they won't even have any days off as it's on the w/end. I would love to carry on as normal but as the places I work at are closed I am forced to stay off work, grr. It would be easier to forget the whole crappy xmas thing if the country I live iin didn't come to a standstill for the best part of a week
LoveTruthChaos Posted September 12, 2010 Posted September 12, 2010 The only thing that will annoy me about this Xmas is that I was planning to fly over to the US (I'm Aussie) to be with my now-ex in order to spend Halloween and Thanksgiving (he promised me great ones because we don't celebrate either of those things here). And then, we spoke about our 'first time' under the misteltoe with each other (kissing!), since we'd never done that before. Now, he takes all the promises he made to me and will give them to the girl he was cheating on me with, who is now his girlfriend. Pizzes me off when people take what's mine ad give it to others. Especially my smile.
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