Ice_Cream Posted September 10, 2010 Posted September 10, 2010 Why is it so unfair for a woman that give her all to her boyfriend and loves him never cheats on him, just caters to him and still ends up getting all the opposite from him?
Fouts Posted September 10, 2010 Posted September 10, 2010 I wouldn't say it's unfair. I'd say she's either clueless or a doormat.
PandorasBox Posted September 10, 2010 Posted September 10, 2010 "Give her all to her boyfriend." "Just caters to him." I would say in your case the above statments you made might be why. Its fine to love someone and do things for them sometimes, but after awhile, if you're the only one doing all the giving and they are doing all the taking, you might want rethink that.
jamesum Posted September 11, 2010 Posted September 11, 2010 Why is it so unfair for a woman that give her all to her boyfriend and loves him never cheats on him, just caters to him and still ends up getting all the opposite from him? Why is it so unfair for a man that give his all to his girlfriend and loves her never cheats on her, just caters to her and still ends up getting all the opposite from her?
Citizen Erased Posted September 11, 2010 Posted September 11, 2010 Why is it so unfair for a man that give his all to his girlfriend and loves her never cheats on her, just caters to her and still ends up getting all the opposite from her? Exactly. You can be treated like crap no matter what your gender is.
Star Gazer Posted September 11, 2010 Posted September 11, 2010 "Give her all to her boyfriend." "Just caters to him." I would say in your case the above statments you made might be why. Its fine to love someone and do things for them sometimes, but after awhile, if you're the only one doing all the giving and they are doing all the taking, you might want rethink that. Agreed. In this case, the OP has doormatitis. And it's not gender specific, it happens regardless of what's in your pants.
Nikki Sahagin Posted September 11, 2010 Posted September 11, 2010 Both good women and good men find that this happens to him. Its because if you offer all of yourself, people will take. What incentive do they have to give?
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