Ice_Cream Posted September 10, 2010 Posted September 10, 2010 Hi everyone, Well I resently opened my facebook in july and a few weeks ago i am seeing another woman tagging stuff on his wall saying how much she misses him and loves him.She even had her status as in a relationship with him (his entire name). She doesnt live in our country. He wasnt in the country he was on vacation for the summer, also bare in mind that he went to a different country for summer vacation. I was still upset. I wanted to know what was going on. All this while i was feeling like i am the only woman in his life. So i got upset and email him and of couse a few curst words were inside the email. Until presently he didnt not reply, and i didnt contact him after that either. I am really upset bcuz it was going to be a year next month since we have been dating. I took it upon on myself (i didnt know if this was right) to email the woman politely through facebook and give her my cell number. I was determine to get an understand of what is really going on. She eventually called me and we had a long talk. She said that she didnt know that he had another woman and that he told her that they were on a long distance relationship from july 2009.They met when she went to our country for vacation last year. So they communicated to phone calls, texts and emails. I trusted him so much that i didnt find it necessary to check his cellphone and emails. So she said that she figured that something was going on because at times he doesnt reply to her messages and calls. She also told me that he had recently called her before all of this occurred. This means that he was calling us both at the same time. Now, he is schedule to reach in the country next weekend and even though is a couple weeks stale. I still find myself getting frustrate and mad over the whole scenario, when i think about unfair it is to be a good woman it makes me cry. I dont know what to do if he calls/text me, visit me at my house or if i see him in public and lastly should i even give him a second chance? ..HELP..
atlnay Posted September 10, 2010 Posted September 10, 2010 Sounds like you still wanna be with him. Right? And that's fine & totally normal you are emotionally invested. What you should do is have a conversation with him. Ask about his ladyfriend. Ask him if he can be monogomaus. Ask him everything. Then decide what you can live with, realizing there is a chance he wants to keep playing the field. Can you handle that? Dont give him an ultimatum if you can't. Be honest with yourself first and be open & direct with him you'll save yourself a lot of misery down the road. Good lucj to you .
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