Getting extremely upset with girlfriends co worker!!!

[Dexter Morgan]

I completely trust her ... she's told me everything he has done.

 

 

and my x-wife told me alot about other guys and what they were doing too....turns out she was effing them.

 

not saying this is what your gf is doing, but her co-worker is acting the way she is because she is allowing him to act that way.

[Untouchable_Fire]

How long were you and her going out? She really did that to you ... with a co worker?

I've been talking to my girl. For what that dumbass has been doing, and for multiple other reasons, we've started looking for another job for her.

 

Yes she did that.

 

She used to tell me all these terrible stories about the guy. He was way older... about 16 years. He had a bisexual encounter with another coworker at a party. He slept with 3 of her other coworkers one of whom was married at the time.

 

At first I really couldn't believe it... then I figured all the crap she told me was a lie. Not too long ago one of her work friends called me and in talking confirmed all the terrible stories about the guy.

 

Bottom line is this. If she talks about him... even in passing. It means she is thinking about him. Probably a lot more than you think.

 

I'm not trying to make you paranoid... but just don't be naive.

[firedup]

Yes she did that.

 

She used to tell me all these terrible stories about the guy. He was way older... about 16 years. He had a bisexual encounter with another coworker at a party. He slept with 3 of her other coworkers one of whom was married at the time.

 

At first I really couldn't believe it... then I figured all the crap she told me was a lie. Not too long ago one of her work friends called me and in talking confirmed all the terrible stories about the guy.

 

Bottom line is this. If she talks about him... even in passing. It means she is thinking about him. Probably a lot more than you think.

 

I'm not trying to make you paranoid... but just don't be naive.

 

Damn. That really sucks ... sorry to hear that. She does talk about him a lot, but if she didn't, I wouldn't be able to hear about her days at work. Most times, she is helping him out with something. I really wish she would've turned him in before, but now that she hasn't, he hasn't done much to be considered sexual harassment.

 

I got some good news ... his company is transferring him off site. Hopefully, if he does come back, she will be working somewhere else. Don't worry, I can't be naive, my last GF decided to mess around, and well, it's probably the best thing that's ever happened to me.

 

If something ever happened to this one - I don't think it would be mutual, but if he did anything to her, I'd lose my mind and probably end up in jail. I'll let you know what happens with her new job and his leaving this one. She's promised to be less talkative at her next job and to let the males know how she feels.

 

If she can do just that, I'm gonna be a lot happier

[Untouchable_Fire]

Damn. That really sucks ... sorry to hear that. She does talk about him a lot, but if she didn't, I wouldn't be able to hear about her days at work. Most times, she is helping him out with something. I really wish she would've turned him in before, but now that she hasn't, he hasn't done much to be considered sexual harassment.

 

So... they work together closely?

 

I think if she didn't like the attention she would have done something about it. Just my opinion though.

 

I got some good news ... his company is transferring him off site. Hopefully, if he does come back, she will be working somewhere else. Don't worry, I can't be naive, my last GF decided to mess around, and well, it's probably the best thing that's ever happened to me.

 

Hot Damn! I heard the exact same thing. I was told he would transfer, and then it was next month, next month, next month, for 4 months.

 

I've been burned almost twice in a row. At first I figured I was doing something wrong... but now I'm starting to get that most of them do it, and the guys either never know or don't hold them accountable.

 

If something ever happened to this one - I don't think it would be mutual, but if he did anything to her, I'd lose my mind and probably end up in jail. I'll let you know what happens with her new job and his leaving this one. She's promised to be less talkative at her next job and to let the males know how she feels. If she can do just that, I'm gonna be a lot happier

 

Keep your eyes clear and your heart strong! Best of luck!

[firedup]

So... they work together closely?

 

I think if she didn't like the attention she would have done something about it. Just my opinion though.

 

 

 

Hot Damn! I heard the exact same thing. I was told he would transfer, and then it was next month, next month, next month, for 4 months.

 

I've been burned almost twice in a row. At first I figured I was doing something wrong... but now I'm starting to get that most of them do it, and the guys either never know or don't hold them accountable.

 

 

 

Keep your eyes clear and your heart strong! Best of luck!

 

Yeah, they work pretty closely together. Last week, he started his transfer. They've been working less and less each day. I'm just waiting for the final "goodbye", and I'll be back to my good ol' happy self. Until then, I'm gonna continue wanting to bash his face, I mean ego in with a baseball bat!

 

Thanks for the luck ... I'm hoping I don't need it