benB Posted September 9, 2010 Posted September 9, 2010 I have been doing NC for about 5 days or so, yesterday my ex called me twice and texted me saying she has been thinking of me all day, a couple more nice texts. Then around midnight she sends a rude text to me blaming me for the breakup. When in reality I did nothing to cause the break up it was her choice and her actions which led to us ending. Now I have been thinking about writing her a email basically to say not to talk to me anymore. I want her to know that this is her doing, that she treated me like crap for months. I don't understand how she can honestly blame me when she is the one who ended things with me. Is this a good idea to send one final email expressing my feelings?
Billie The Puppet Posted September 9, 2010 Posted September 9, 2010 I have been doing NC for about 5 days or so, yesterday my ex called me twice and texted me saying she has been thinking of me all day, a couple more nice texts. Then around midnight she sends a rude text to me blaming me for the breakup. When in reality I did nothing to cause the break up it was her choice and her actions which led to us ending. Now I have been thinking about writing her a email basically to say not to talk to me anymore. I want her to know that this is her doing, that she treated me like crap for months. I don't understand how she can honestly blame me when she is the one who ended things with me. Is this a good idea to send one final email expressing my feelings? Don't, I did and it did help her do NC but I have since reread that email and saw more emotions than I originally wrote. No reply is the best reply.
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