shanemike88 Posted September 9, 2010 Posted September 9, 2010 My ex and I broke up about 2 months ago after about a year and a half together. I broke up with her in the winter for about three months because I felt I wasn't being treated well in the relationship. She would text me, call me, voicemails, until I finally gave her the chance to talk to me face to face. I caved in after about two months and we had a heart to heart, when that happened she said all the right things and we got back together. Fast forward to now. After our most recent breakup (She broke up with me) and about a month of NC my ex decided to text me last week. The text messages weren't anything nice they were pretty much just reassuring why she's better off without me, and her life is so great now, how she never loved me, she was lonely in the winter, and I was nothing but a crutch to lean on during her time of stress. I didn't really say anything to defend myself I just let it go and if I texted back it was "ok." I've been getting this urge to break NC but is it too late? Or should I just let this whole thing go?
xx.Kael.xx Posted September 9, 2010 Posted September 9, 2010 My ex basically did the same. Just keep cool, stay NC. Seriously, you can do better than that. Don't lose the war to somebody not worth the fight.
Billie The Puppet Posted September 9, 2010 Posted September 9, 2010 No reply is the best reply ( god I need to learn this ) They want to get arise out of you. See if you act on emotions etc. It's a comfort thing with them. It allows them to feed their egos. Even replying back with a counter attack still means you are acknowledging them.
ShannonMI Posted September 9, 2010 Posted September 9, 2010 No reply is the best reply ( god I need to learn this ) They want to get arise out of you. See if you act on emotions etc. It's a comfort thing with them. It allows them to feed their egos. Even replying back with a counter attack still means you are acknowledging them. I agree with this. Don't give her the satisfaction of knowing you are upset by what she said. Just keep with the NC and you'll get through this. I'm sorry she said such horrible things to you. She sounds very inconsiderate. You are better then this and don't let those things she said get you down.
Billie The Puppet Posted September 9, 2010 Posted September 9, 2010 I agree with this. Don't give her the satisfaction of knowing you are upset by what she said. Just keep with the NC and you'll get through this. I'm sorry she said such horrible things to you. She sounds very inconsiderate. You are better then this and don't let those things she said get you down. We`ve come to an agreement, we are making progress lol!
ShannonMI Posted September 9, 2010 Posted September 9, 2010 We`ve come to an agreement, we are making progress lol! Yes! Awesome!
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