Drummergirl_23 Posted September 8, 2010 Posted September 8, 2010 There has been no contact for nearly a month. I thought I was doing good until today. Today would have been our 3 year anniversary... So stupid sentimental me, sent a text. It was cordial, I got a response and proceeded to say how this day only made me think of all my mistakes, regrets, and how I lost "the one". How sad I was that this day no longer has the same meaning it used to, its just another day. And I said how I hoped someday I would be able to experience the same happiness I felt on this day 3 years ago. The response I got that it still meant something and I should have no regrets and that I will find someone someday. Its been 4 months since the breakup and I just feel numb. I wish I'd never said anything and I now feel stupid for being so weak. I was doing good and now I just feel like crap again. I hate those special days that used to mean something special and just don't anymore. When does this feeling end?
ShannonMI Posted September 8, 2010 Posted September 8, 2010 There has been no contact for nearly a month. I thought I was doing good until today. Today would have been our 3 year anniversary... So stupid sentimental me, sent a text. It was cordial, I got a response and proceeded to say how this day only made me think of all my mistakes, regrets, and how I lost "the one". How sad I was that this day no longer has the same meaning it used to, its just another day. And I said how I hoped someday I would be able to experience the same happiness I felt on this day 3 years ago. The response I got that it still meant something and I should have no regrets and that I will find someone someday. Its been 4 months since the breakup and I just feel numb. I wish I'd never said anything and I now feel stupid for being so weak. I was doing good and now I just feel like crap again. I hate those special days that used to mean something special and just don't anymore. When does this feeling end? The feeling ends in time, but don't keep making yourself go backwards. Don't contact your ex. I tried that in the first few months of my breakup. I poured my heart out and told him how much I missed him and his response was "I'm sorry that things are the way they are, hopefully we can be friends someday." NOT what I wanted to hear, but now I know never to do THAT again. I've since found out he was cheating on me a week before he even told me he wanted to break up, so now I feel like a fool for pouring my feelings out and telling him I missed him. Ugh! He doesn't deserve to hear me say anything sentimental. He's NOT the person I met 8 years ago. He's NOT the person I fell in love with. I was saying those sentimental things to the man I first met and the response I got was from the new man. A lying, cheating, no good piece of sh*t. Not the same person by any means. Don't have any more contact. Save yourself the heartache. When you feel sad and you feel like you want to reach out to him, do something else. Write in your journal, call a friend, take a walk. Just don't text or call him. You won't like the response and it will set you back.
skydiveaddict Posted September 8, 2010 Posted September 8, 2010 There has been no contact for nearly a month. I thought I was doing good until today. Today would have been our 3 year anniversary... So stupid sentimental me, sent a text. It was cordial, I got a response and proceeded to say how this day only made me think of all my mistakes, regrets, and how I lost "the one". How sad I was that this day no longer has the same meaning it used to, its just another day. And I said how I hoped someday I would be able to experience the same happiness I felt on this day 3 years ago. The response I got that it still meant something and I should have no regrets and that I will find someone someday. Its been 4 months since the breakup and I just feel numb. I wish I'd never said anything and I now feel stupid for being so weak. I was doing good and now I just feel like crap again. I hate those special days that used to mean something special and just don't anymore. When does this feeling end? Don't be so hard on yourself. You will meet the right one. Go out and have some fun tonite.
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