9Lives Posted September 8, 2010 Posted September 8, 2010 After all the bull crap I have been thru and my ex making it clear we are not getting back together, he text me yesterday saying Hey U, just saying hello So I had this conversation going on in my head 1.Okay dude, what makes you think I want to be your friend? I dont! 2.What makes you think we are on your terms?We are not.compliments of LS training 3.If you said it is over and acted nasty towards me, why do you think I want to hear from you? I dont anymore I am JUST starting to feel a little bit better. I am JUST starting to remember all his triffling ways cause I couldnt before. I already know that if I start texting you back it will lead where?????....no fking where. I already know that if I answer you, you will dismiss me when YOU get ready. Poof! im gone. I love my ex but Im trying working hard on getting a fresh start. A new life without him. I dont need the DRIVE BY TEXT. If he wants friends even or more...which he dont I dont think...I will need something real. I just look at it and kept moving. NC=no new pain. Im good right now.
Buccaneer55 Posted September 8, 2010 Posted September 8, 2010 After all the bull crap I have been thru and my ex making it clear we are not getting back together, he text me yesterday saying Hey U, just saying hello So I had this conversation going on in my head 1.Okay dude, what makes you think I want to be your friend? I dont! 2.What makes you think we are on your terms?We are not.compliments of LS training 3.If you said it is over and acted nasty towards me, why do you think I want to hear from you? I dont anymore I am JUST starting to feel a little bit better. I am JUST starting to remember all his triffling ways cause I couldnt before. I already know that if I start texting you back it will lead where?????....no fking where. I already know that if I answer you, you will dismiss me when YOU get ready. Poof! im gone. I love my ex but I'm trying working hard on getting a fresh start. A new life without him. I dont need the DRIVE BY TEXT. If he wants friends even or more...which he dont I dont think...I will need something real. I just look at it and kept moving. NC=no new pain. Im good right now. I'm completely in the same boat as you. She ended it "for good" a few months back, but she hasn't been able to go more than 5 days without texting me. I've been feeling good about myself too even though I do still love her. It's just unreal how the dumper can act sometimes. I think you should continue to ignore it, until you do get something a lot more substantial to go off of.
Author 9Lives Posted September 8, 2010 Author Posted September 8, 2010 I'm completely in the same boat as you. She ended it "for good" a few months back, but she hasn't been able to go more than 5 days without texting me. I've been feeling good about myself too even though I do still love her. It's just unreal how the dumper can act sometimes. I think you should continue to ignore it, until you do get something a lot more substantial to go off of. Thanks for confirmation Buccaneer. It is so funny, even 2 or 3 months ago, I would have done a cart wheel Thinking it is good and heading somewhere when in reality, it still all about them.
Buccaneer55 Posted September 8, 2010 Posted September 8, 2010 Thanks for confirmation Buccaneer. It is so funny, even 2 or 3 months ago, I would have done a cart wheel Thinking it is good and heading somewhere when in reality, it still all about them. You're welcome. I still struggle too. I don't contact her, but I still have a hard time ignoring her if she sends something to me. I too have to remind myself that she knows what I want, and until she's ready to give it a go, I need to just ignore everything. Just stay strong!
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