HeartBrokenAlways Posted September 8, 2010 Posted September 8, 2010 Even though this may take a while, Im going to start from the begining. I first met joe at the ice skating rink about 4 years ago. He was flirty and sweet, but i had no interest in being more than friends with him. You see joe is known for for being a bit of a player, As i had only just met him i did not know this. We continued to talk ... Msn, phone calls, text, meeting up and generally hanging out, facebook ect. I started to like him.. alot. Then just when i plucked up the nerves to ask him out, i find he has a girlfriend! It ruined everything. So we stopped talking for about a month, i missed him so much. I'd never felt like this before. About a month later, i recive a text. "Beth i miss you x" .... he had broken up with his girlfriend. One night he invited me over to his, he had a few friends over. him and i were watching family guy in bed, and all of a sudden we were kissing, the passion was so intense, I'd never felt like this with another man before. It wasn't sex. It was making love. He didn't speak to me for weeks after. Well he didn't ignore me, We just never spoke. Then i go on facebook and see 'joe is in a relationship with molly' ... i was crushed. I burst out crying, i felt like he had ripped my heart out and stamped on it. i cried weeks on end. Months later (still not over him) i recive a text "Hey i really miss you :(" ... i txt back saying "are you still with your girlfriend" he said no. Then he kept saying how he loves me but he wants to be with molly. In the end i told him to leave me alone completely so i could get over him, as it wasn't fair on me! 2 Months past. And he wants to meet me. I agree. He says he needs me and he loves me. He says how hes willing to break up with molly for me and how much hes missed me. Maybe im niave but i don't take "love" lightly ... Ive never even told a man i loved him before or after joe. I belived every word he told me. We made love again, but being me (stupid) i did it while he was with his girlfriend. And guess what .... He pretty much abandond me AGAIN. I miss him so much, i love him. And whats worse. Im pregnant. Im not sure what im going to do. But im glad i got this off my chest. x
BB07 Posted September 8, 2010 Posted September 8, 2010 Even though this may take a while, Im going to start from the begining. I first met joe at the ice skating rink about 4 years ago. He was flirty and sweet, but i had no interest in being more than friends with him. You see joe is known for for being a bit of a player, As i had only just met him i did not know this. We continued to talk ... Msn, phone calls, text, meeting up and generally hanging out, facebook ect. I started to like him.. alot. Then just when i plucked up the nerves to ask him out, i find he has a girlfriend! It ruined everything. So we stopped talking for about a month, i missed him so much. I'd never felt like this before. About a month later, i recive a text. "Beth i miss you x" .... he had broken up with his girlfriend. One night he invited me over to his, he had a few friends over. him and i were watching family guy in bed, and all of a sudden we were kissing, the passion was so intense, I'd never felt like this with another man before. It wasn't sex. It was making love. He didn't speak to me for weeks after. Well he didn't ignore me, We just never spoke. Then i go on facebook and see 'joe is in a relationship with molly' ... i was crushed. I burst out crying, i felt like he had ripped my heart out and stamped on it. i cried weeks on end. Months later (still not over him) i recive a text "Hey i really miss you :(" ... i txt back saying "are you still with your girlfriend" he said no. Then he kept saying how he loves me but he wants to be with molly. In the end i told him to leave me alone completely so i could get over him, as it wasn't fair on me! 2 Months past. And he wants to meet me. I agree. He says he needs me and he loves me. He says how hes willing to break up with molly for me and how much hes missed me. Maybe im niave but i don't take "love" lightly ... Ive never even told a man i loved him before or after joe. I belived every word he told me. We made love again, but being me (stupid) i did it while he was with his girlfriend. And guess what .... He pretty much abandond me AGAIN. I miss him so much, i love him. And whats worse. Im pregnant. Im not sure what im going to do. But im glad i got this off my chest. x Oh hon, what a mess. What are you going to do about the pregnancy and if you don't mind me asking, how old are you? Give us a little more information and maybe you can get some more help. I don't want to hurt you any more, but the reality is, this guy sounds like a real sleezeball and that he used you. Do NOT let him use you anymore, you don't deserve crap from anyone. I'm so sorry.
In_Repair Posted September 8, 2010 Posted September 8, 2010 I miss him so much, i love him. And whats worse. Im pregnant. Im not sure what im going to do. But im glad i got this off my chest. x -If you keep the baby, get ready to sue Joe the player for child support. Might be a long line... -Go ask somebody what the word "player" means, and then try to understand that there are real reasons people get tagged with that title. You knew he had that reputation and you still got played... twice. -Buy some condoms. Unprotected sex that early and with his track record? Get screened for STDs when you go to the doctor. and here, here's your hug: (((hug)))... just so I don't get called a mean judgmental bastard.
IfiKnewThen Posted September 9, 2010 Posted September 9, 2010 i am sorry. i have been hurt 2 times so far too. i need to ask you though. what do you mean he pretty much abandon you? how long ago was this? and how is he with the other woman? does he live with her? just wondering.. hugs ps he sux royal for doing that to you. he should have know how precious a thing love and love making is to you and had more sense and a heart. ugh!
awkward Posted September 9, 2010 Posted September 9, 2010 Maybe im niave but i don't take "love" lightly . I think the kindest way to say this is that his actions show you that he takes "love" lightly. Clearly you and he are not on the same page and don't want the same things. Given a 3rd chance to break your heart, he'll probably do it. Im pregnant. Im not sure what im going to do. But im glad i got this off my chest. x Take care of yourself.
sugarmomma Posted September 9, 2010 Posted September 9, 2010 You are the Fall Back Girl. Google it. Baggage Reclaim rocks!!!
siuys Posted September 9, 2010 Posted September 9, 2010 He is so not worth it it's not funny. Get out now! Think hard about the pregnancy thing. Regardless leave HIM! don't ruin your future being with someone of that calibre.
tornandmarried Posted September 9, 2010 Posted September 9, 2010 now think...do u really "love" him or is it just a crush...is this relationship really based on caring and honesty and understanding and all that jazz? no didnt think so...youll find a good guy u can spend your life with and wont hurt you and now thats love...sue him for child support and see who the real player is
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