manchild Posted September 8, 2010 Posted September 8, 2010 hey all you can read my story i finally went full no contact 21 days ago and she texted me today saying can she send me message? who knows what she wants should i reply back to her today later tonight or tomorrow and just say what you got? or what? also, im so worried she wants to meet and give stuff back or get rid of my stuff or that she is going to post pics of him and her on facebook and wants to tell me or all negatives thoughts you know just whatever i want to know what she wants but im not sending text back asap cuz gotta make her wait.
Silvaria Posted September 9, 2010 Posted September 9, 2010 As someone who is finding NC almost impossible, I can't really give you any advice...I am, however, curious as to what -you- want to do. Do you want to write her back and say sure, send me a message? Or are you more inclined to ignore it, and maintain NC?
Author manchild Posted September 9, 2010 Author Posted September 9, 2010 i replied and said yea what you got? that was it no reply from her so far that was at 4 o clock she sent hers this morning at 1045 so i wonder what is up
Author manchild Posted September 9, 2010 Author Posted September 9, 2010 no reply so far i just sent one saying yea what you got? so we will see how bad she wants to contact me im wondering if she just maybe sent it on accident or whatever it just weird outta blue she sent one saying can i send you a msg? it like asking for permission how crazy!
Trovador Posted September 10, 2010 Posted September 10, 2010 It´s so easy for them to text or call and then completely ignore your answer... how are they able to do that? Once, I realized I was answering back too fast, as if I had anything to do or as if I was just expecting her text... I tried to hold back some time but I couldn't... it seemed to me like a game or dishonesty... How they do that? Do they put aside their phones or they see it's you and then completely ignore you? Like you, I would have answered and yes, I'd be still expecting her following message...
Silvaria Posted September 10, 2010 Posted September 10, 2010 Geesh, that's so annoying...she writes you a message asking if she can send a message, and when you say yes, she doesn't reply...damn, that sounds like something my ex would do, LOL...makes you kinda want to bitch-slap them, doesn't it?
Author manchild Posted September 10, 2010 Author Posted September 10, 2010 yea you right why woudl she ask for permission to text and then nothign wow anyways it ok i klnow nc works now and i will use it til she actually talks more i will not answer her at all next time til she lets me know what she wants do you think she was really thinking me even though she got this new man or whatever gah!!
shayan Posted September 10, 2010 Posted September 10, 2010 Yes stay NC, she may call in two weeks and ask you if you want to get lunch. No! Let go! And in the mean time mourn it and close your hearts doors to her.
Author manchild Posted September 10, 2010 Author Posted September 10, 2010 Yea hey you are right shaman u Know I kinda got lost tho when u said No! Let go. What u mean by that? Neways this really is so stupid how she asked that then nothing being childish I bet if I ask her she say I did t send u text ok then how it come up duh neways what else y'all think
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