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Bad events that cause long term damage that would never have occurred if he/she never hurt you. We all got our lists and stories like this. Some are petty and easy to bounce back from. Some, even long after the dumper hurt you, continue to haunt you to this day. I know because I have experienced this first hand. For those of you that don't fully understand what i mean, let me elaborate:

 

November 1st, 1996 : My first girlfriend in middle school. I was a bit of a nerd and kinda shy but was lucky enough to get the interest of a former elementary crush from another middle school who wanted to date me. On this day, at a football game, in front of several people, she proceeded to not only dump me, but verbally and loudly berate me. I have it on good word that the whole relationship was a ruse, set up by popular kids at my school that knew her simply to toy with my feelings. Needless to say, to experience something like this at the tender age of 13 for the first time, was pretty agonizing. I did the perverbial run away and cry like a little school girl. The end result ? Later that night I was scooped up by a crew that was partly comprised of kids that I'd known in 5th grade but drifted out of touch with and, up until earlier this year, a crew I ran with and was always down for. Being part of this crew I ran into 14 years worth of inevitable trouble that comes when you roll with a crew, drugs (they introduced me to weed on the grounds that it would "take away sadness when girls tell you they don't like you"), fights with other cliquas, being forced to carrying out acts of violence on people they didn't like (you refuse, they target you) several arrests, several injuries which I still carry scars from. Before I ran into them I was a true nerdy bookworm in every sense of the word who already knew what my goals were. By the time I was a senior, I was just that "little bandito" that my classmates and teachers insisted would be dead or locked up by our ten year reunion. In an ironic twist the girl that hurt me that night is both a model and a college grad. Till this day I wonder how different things would have been if she hadn't done what she did to me.

 

April 18th, 2005 : After catching a bit of a break dating wise and generally in life, I managed to marry a total sweetheart I'd been dating since for about a year. Things were awesome. I was on top of the world. Beautiful wife, good job as a children's librarian. One day I get an e-mail from my wife's little gay friend (who for reasons unknown never liked me from the get go) to tell me about how they were out and about at a gay club and he busted her passionately making out with another female and how she'd "started seeing women in a different light" shortly before we'd married. This one sent me off the deep end guys. I mean seriously, couldn't she just have cheated on me with a guy at least ? This lead to increased drinking, which led to frequent hangovers at work, which down the road cost me my job, which lead to me retaliating against my ex wife's friend and his boyfriend for converting her, which lead to me doing some jail time. I went from city employee to bussing tables at a Deli guys, not cool at all. Of course I have a much better job now and I gained my tolerance back somewhat, though till this day no girlfriend of mine ever gets to have gay friends, male or female. Once again i reiterate my curiosity on how different things would have been if her little gay friends and the dyke she left me for had just stuck to their own kind and not comingled our marriage.

 

You'd think after going thru all of this, the powers that be would just cut me some MFing slack, and thru perserverance and good will I'd go on to lead a good life. APPARENTLY NOT !! Earlier this year a girl I was dating decided to buzzsaw me on the grounds that "we do better as friends." Her timing and wording was pretty lousy, and once again this lead to an epic downward spiral. Aside from consuming massive amounts of alcohol, pills, and pot, I ended up doling out merciless beatdowns to 6 people all together who made the mistake of effing with me while in a state of heartache which is something you JUST DON'T DO ! (see one of my first threads here for further understanding). Unfortunately, one of them, not happy with how expensive having broken bones reset can cost when you don't have medical insurance, decided to rat me out like a no heart having little punk MFer. Now in November, I gotta face a judge for my actions. But wait, it gets better (extreme sarcasm intended)..........

 

My father and grandfather, having ties to people at the courthouse, tried to use their clout to see if I could catch a break. The assistant DA, who for the record takes her job way too seriously, made it very clear that due to the "brutality" of my actions, probation is out of the question. Wether I like it or not, I'm spending some time behind bars for what I did to this clown, and the only thing I get to choose is wether my time behind bars be spent in jail, or in prison, and if the charges they hit me with will be either felonies or misdemeanors. The only things I have to my advantage is that this clown waited a while and healed up a bit before ratting me out (the pigs that popped me said if he'd have cooperated with them sooner they could have popped me for assault with a deadly weapon). And that this punk literally admitted to Mr. Piggy that he WANTED to fight me from the get go (mutual combatant). I tried to get away from him, he still tried to start a fight with me, I told him that I wasn't to be tried at the moment, he STILL tried to start a fight with me, I armed myself and told him that he better back on up before I cracked on him.......... BUT HE STILL WANTED TO FIGHT ME !!! For the third time, I wonder how differently things would have been if that little black hearted hellhound in heels hadn't decided to cut me loose in the manner and time she did.

 

Now all I can do is hope that the judge I get is in good with my family (which the majority of them are) and that he'll cut me some much deserved slack on this one. Sure the assistant DA will be strongly recommending incarceration but the judge doesn't always have to go by what the DA says. As soon as my dad finds out which judge I'm facing were going to have a sit down with him/her and see what we can work out. Wish me luck guys.

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Dude: Life is what you make it.

It's not the crap you're dealt. It's how you deal with it.

 

You made some real poor choices.

live with the consequences, do your time and learn form the experiences.

 

All that's happening to you is your responsibility, because of your own unwise, reckless and thoughtless reactions.

Nobody else is to blame for what you're going through.

Everyone is responsible for their own actions, but they're in no way responsible for how you took it. That's your call, buddy.

 

You phukked up big time.

 

Suck it up.

 

Deal with it, put it behind you, move on, and make better decisions in future.

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Gotta agree with TaraMaiden.

 

We've ALL been hurt. Some have been hurt far worse than you have. We don't all act the way you have to 'solve' our problems. You're blaming everyone but yourself in all of this. In every break up, there are TWO sides. I think you enjoy being a victim. Behaving like this clearly has not gotten you very far.

 

How you deal with issues is a state of mind, nothing more.

This is the path YOU have chosen for yourself.

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Definitely agree with TM here! You've been shat on from a great distance, yeah, but who here hasn't? You responded totally inappropriately. Your whole attitude reeks of "the world owes me". Well guess what, no it does not. You make your own breaks in this life. If you choose to drink and do drugs and commit violent assaults then you will get the justice you deserve. And yes, you do deserve it. I seriously hope you don't get away with committing GBH because of your family connections, if you do then there is seriously something wrong with the system.

 

Hopefully while you're in prison you will have a lot of alone time to think about the choices you made that put you there. I also hope they have a counsellor there to help you through your problems. I wish you good luck in becoming a better person when you get out.

 

Did you get the professional help that everyone recommended to you in February?

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Oh, and gay couples don't 'convert' people to become gay. Those who have leanings towards the same sex have had those tendencies for a long time, sometimes since birth. Sometimes, a lot of external factors (environment, family, religion, etc) stop them from pursuing what's in their heart. So having anger towards this male gay couple and all other gay people who could 'convert' your future partners is simply ill-placed.

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And even if they did "convert" her to being gay (which as LTC said is highly unlikely!)... it was her choice to do it. Nobody held a gun to her head. You cannot be converted to being gay if you don't want to.

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Well thank you guys.

I thought I might get "slapped up de head" for that one, but I'm lucky to encounter like-minded folks here.

And I didn't touch upon the

 

though till this day no girlfriend of mine ever gets to have gay friends, male or female.

 

Because that was just the most idiotic comment, and needed no response.

I have several gay friends, both male and female. Does that make me want to be gay? Er...no.....

 

Does that make them want to be hetero...? Well, 'no' to that too... so I guess your ex already had that inclination, OP. You don't 'make' people Gay, or even bi-sexual. You either are, or you're not.

 

So frankly, while you may think you're good, and right to exert control over other people, frankly, you're not much good at it, and you have no right to do it,.

Particularly when it seems you're not really all that good at coping with your own self-made crud....

 

You're going to have to deal with this one, and file it under "I'm a real hard-@ss idiot"....

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Definitely agree with TM here! You've been shat on from a great distance, yeah, but who here hasn't? You responded totally inappropriately. Your whole attitude reeks of "the world owes me". Well guess what, no it does not. You make your own breaks in this life. If you choose to drink and do drugs and commit violent assaults then you will get the justice you deserve. And yes, you do deserve it. I seriously hope you don't get away with committing GBH because of your family connections, if you do then there is seriously something wrong with the system.

 

Hopefully while you're in prison you will have a lot of alone time to think about the choices you made that put you there. I also hope they have a counsellor there to help you through your problems. I wish you good luck in becoming a better person when you get out.

 

Did you get the professional help that everyone recommended to you in February?

 

 

Apparently the mutual combatant concept isn't known where you're from, so because I'm such a nice guy I'll go ahead and school you on the matter:

 

The punk I smashed on WANTED TO FIGHT ME FROM THE MOMENT I ARRIVED AT MY FRIENDS HOUSE ! I politely asked my friend to please tell him to leave me alone because I just saw this girl give another guy her # and wasn't in the mood. He kept on pushing it by singing lame heartbreak songs to mock me, so I went outside to smoke a cig, he followed me out there and started asking me what I'd do if he decided to hit me, so I went back inside. He followed me and started bragging about what a highly skilled fighter he is and could easily take a little 130 lbs runt like me out with ease, at which point I just outright told my friend that I better leave before he crossed a line with me, I went back to my car and he came out trying to fight me, I went into my car, armed myself and told him to get the eff out of my face before cracked his MFing head open.......... AND HE STILL CAME AFTER ME ! WHAT WAS I SUPPOSED TO DO ?!?!?! I may not be perfect but when I'm well versed in CQC and one simple, common sense rule is that you DONT PICK FIGHTS WITH ARMED OPPONENTS WHEN YOU DON'T HAVE HEALTH INSURANCE ! You live in a country with pretty lame weapons restrictions so I don't expect you to understand how these things work, I just ask you and everyone else to realize that I sincerely tried to get this guy to leave me alone before it escalated, I always give them a chance to leave me alone before it escalates, but he just couldn't resist, none of them ever can and I sincerely don't know why. What was I supposed to do ?

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Apparently the mutual combatant concept isn't known where you're from, so because I'm such a nice guy I'll go ahead and school you on the matter:

 

Oh, no, you're quite wrong. As a Martial Arts instructor, i'm very familiar with it...

 

The punk I smashed on WANTED TO FIGHT ME FROM THE MOMENT I ARRIVED AT MY FRIENDS HOUSE!
So leave, immediately. your big mistake was staying.

 

I politely asked my friend to please tell him to leave me alone because I just saw this girl give another guy her # and wasn't in the mood. He kept on pushing it by singing lame heartbreak songs to mock me, so I went outside to smoke a cig, he followed me out there and started asking me what I'd do if he decided to hit me, so I went back inside. He followed me and started bragging about what a highly skilled fighter he is and could easily take a little 130 lbs runt like me out with ease, at which point I just outright told my friend that I better leave before he crossed a line with me, I went back to my car and he came out trying to fight me, I went into my car, armed myself and told him to get the eff out of my face before cracked his MFing head open.......... AND HE STILL CAME AFTER ME ! WHAT WAS I SUPPOSED TO DO ?!?!?!

 

see? There's your big mistake. Going to your car, and NOT getting into it and leaving, like you said you were going to.

Nothing can harm us if we don't clench our fists and make it connect to the jaw.

I may not be perfect but when I'm well versed in CQC and one simple, common sense rule is that you DONT PICK FIGHTS WITH ARMED OPPONENTS WHEN YOU DON'T HAVE HEALTH INSURANCE !

 

Then you in turn, don't hit someone without health insurance, Actually, as it's not a commonly asked question before you proceed to bash someone's brains out, it's best you don't hit anyone - period.

 

You live in a country with pretty lame weapons restrictions so I don't expect you to understand how these things work,

Oh really? That's interesting. Where do you think I live, exactly?

(More blame-shifting).

 

I just ask you and everyone else to realize that I sincerely tried to get this guy to leave me alone before it escalated, I always give them a chance to leave me alone before it escalates, but he just couldn't resist
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And neither it seems, could you. So he's to blame for his actions - but you are just as much to blame for yours.

This is your problem, of your making. You played into it, so you are responsible for the consequences.

 

none of them ever can and I sincerely don't know why. What was I supposed to do ?

Leave Immediately.

 

What part of that was so difficult to actually do?

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The UK does not have "pretty lame" weapons restrictions. Quite the opposite.

 

The USA is abysmal when it comes to handling and possessing weapons, anybody can have a gun.

But a gun is only as dangerous as the moron who fires it.

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You live in a country with pretty lame weapons restrictions

Well I don't want to get into a political debate. But lets just say, who is the one in court for armed assault? And you think our restrictions are lame? Ha ha.

 

Seriously man. You need to GET PROFESSIONAL HELP.

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Wait, what? You ARMED yourself? Are you in a war? Do you live in Afghanistan?

 

I'm sorry, but I'm someone who comes from a fairly utopian country. I don't understand guns, not even slightly.

 

You have some serious anger and entitlement issues, and you really do need to seek some help for dealing with those. As someone far wiser than me said - the sign of someone who needs help is when they rationalise their behaviour instead of owning up to it.

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Well I don't want to get into a political debate. But lets just say, who is the one in court for armed assault? And you think our restrictions are lame? Ha ha.

 

Seriously man. You need to GET PROFESSIONAL HELP.

 

Um, I'm not getting charged with armed assault, I'm getting charged with assault, it's just up for debate as to wether or not it's going to be misdemeanor assault or felony assault. There's a difference dude, learn it.

 

OK, fine, you're right, I have rejection issues, considering my history could anyone here blame me ? I've never physically or verbally hurt a woman, which considering my dating past is no small feat, I still treat women with the utmost respect and never project any negative feelings stemming from rejection onto them. I don't think that being a nice guy automatically entitles you to get any girl you want, but I think when you've had your heart trampled underfoot so many times from your first relationship on down, yet you still maintain the patience and the heart and compassion to still be a sweet and carrying guy with the women, well that should count for something, at least to me. Most guys who have gone thru things like me have zero respect for women. They hit women, they control women, they generally don't like women and are usually just bitter and mean to women, and I try and not go that route because I know that once I get on the "All B****es are scandalous" bandwagon (to the ladies I apologize for using the B word but this is a term used by bitter guys who sincerely believe that all women are evil and need men to "keep them in check") I'll never find a special someone.

 

Yeah, so I have a bit of a rejection issue, did you all ever stop to think of how different my tone might be if I wasn't rejected so frequently and so brutally ? Not trying to blameshift, just putting the idea of "what if" out there. I'm not a bad person guys, I just have a really big heart that can feel love and pain a little more than average. When I like someone I'm floating, I'm walking around to the beat of "Stayin Alive" I'm grinning alot and whistling cheesy love songs. When I've been hurt, I just want to be left alone until I can put the pieces back together. Yeah, provoking me when I'm heartbroken can yield some over the top results, but be honest guys, who do you think is worse ? A guy who has black out snap moments when someone picks on him because a girl broke his heart, or someone who for no reason knowingly and maliciously goes up to someone and picks on him because a girl broke his heart ? Once again not blame shifting, just simply asking a question.

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Ask the judge to be more lenient on you, on condition you get serious professional counselling on your Anger and rejection issues.

 

Tell him/her you really want to change, see you need to change, and will forever be in this retaliatory frame of mind until you learn how to process stuff properly.

There are countless thousands of stories far worse than yours, on this website. To my recollection, very few guys have ever resorted to violence.

 

Striking another person for whatever reasons you might deem justified or reasonable, is NEVER ok.

 

You really need some professional help. offer that as part of your co-operative deal.

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Yeah, so I have a bit of a rejection issue, did you all ever stop to think of how different my tone might be if I wasn't rejected so frequently and so brutally ?

 

Mate, I'm not kidding - I've been through rejection, abandonment and hurt like a son of a b*tch. We all have. Sure, I yell, scream and stomp around the house screaming words to heartbreak songs when I'm in a foul mood. As as much as I really dislike my ex right now and say hurtful things towards him (to myself) in jest - I would NEVER behave the way that you have.

 

That is a CHOICE. Please do not justify it any further.

 

You are acting like you are the only one on earth experiencing it and trying to convince us that you are doing the right thing for the good of the nation. STOP.

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Um, I'm not getting charged with armed assault, I'm getting charged with assault, it's just up for debate as to wether or not it's going to be misdemeanor assault or felony assault. There's a difference dude, learn it.

I neither know nor care what the difference is. It's not something I'm ever likely to need to know about because I do not solve my problems by committing assault or armed assault or felonies or misdemeanours. The fact is, you're in trouble with the law for violent acts, and I'm not. The choices you made led to the situation you're in. You could have walked away at any point but you chose violence instead.

 

As TM said... you need serious professional counselling.

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.......... No I don't. I'm as logical and as lucid as they come believe it or not. I don't really see how it's my fault that I have the extreme unfortunate luck of attractive combative clowns who lack the logic and common sense I possess. Like I said, you don't want to get stuck with a hospital bill you can't afford, don't fight an armed guy when you don't have health insurance. You all think it's messed up I have a propensity for violence which is triggered by rejection ? Then maybe women should be better educated on reasons that don't justify rejecting a man (ie, not being tall, or muscular, or rich or other BS reasons like that). Don't wanna incur the wrath of someone who has just had his heart broken and is blatantly distressed about it ? LEAVE HIM ALONE ! Plain and simple.

 

I don't have "anger issues", in fact on any other day if someone provokes me, I'm pretty much a wuss about it. I'll do anything to avoid confrontation. People with anger issues go on rampages and go so overboard because they lose control when they get mad. I have the common sense to cork it when needed and I never pop off unless someone does something I consider an act of aggression. I can honestly look back at everyone I've ever took on for messing with me while in a state of heartache and say, none were innocent bystanders, ALL were looking for trouble, and ALL underestimated me. If you knew the backgrounds of most if not all these guys, I highly doubt you'd be giving me the kind of grief you just gave me here and now, hell, you might even wish you could high five me for a few of these incidents. I mean unless you all have some kind of unhealthy sympathy for gang members, ex cons, strung out aggressive panhandlers, convicted sex offenders, belligerent drunks and plain old bullies, then by all means, condemn me all you want.

 

I hate to sound like a broken record but once again, you can't help but think of how different things would have been if I wasn't rejected or hurt at the time. I mean think about it. An estimated four or five dozen guys either scarred or impaired, in a few cases permanently, why ? Because I'm not tall enough, or I'm not muscular enough, I don't make enough money, I'm too much of a mexican, whatever that means, or because abusive alcoholics are apparently more dateable that nice guys who don't do things like that. You all think I'm a loon for trying to justify my actions and decisions ? Funny, I was thinking the exact same thing about the women who rejected me for the reasons I just described.

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Yeah, ok, you carry on and be a lone voice in the wilderness, ranting and raving "Why me?!?" against this imaginary foe.

 

Try looking in the mirror.

 

That guy's the worst enemy you've got.

And right now?

 

Wow.

 

He 's unbeatable!

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I'm always impressed that people will read an OP that is longer than a few sentences. How anyone's problem amounts to more than that is a mystery to me. Anyway, good on you all for reading through the muck. My admiration is unbounded.

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I have a propensity for violence

There you go. It wasn't that hard to admit was it? Now for stage 2. Fixing it. You need a professional for that part.

 

I hate to sound like a broken record but once again, you can't help but think of how different things would have been if I wasn't rejected or hurt at the time.

Yes that's true. And that is exactly what professional therapy will achieve. It will undo the psychological damage that was done to you.

 

I would also recommend the book "No More Mr Nice Guy" by Robert Glover to you. You could be a poster child for that book.

 

You all think I'm a loon for trying to justify my actions and decisions ? Funny, I was thinking the exact same thing about the women who rejected me for the reasons I just described.

The difference is, you're not responsible for their actions. You are responsible for your own actions.

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I'm leaving this conversation because either he's not reading a word I say, or I'm talking to a f^cking brick wall. Not wasting any more finger breath on this one.

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Well I just thought I'd bring up this thread with a rather important update on things. I know that when I initially created this thread that I was in a bad spot over a heartache induced snap moment. Many people here deemed my actions over the top. They blatantly expressed their disapproval of my actions and even sympathized with my victim. They out right said they hope I do hard time for my actions. In a way I can understand that. I mean after all, I broke a man's jaw, collarbone, arm, and a few ribs with an ASP collapsible baton. Such actions are completely inexcusable. Shame on me.

 

A while back my victim was arrested for his alleged role in a series of home invasions (and you all think *I* was the bad guy for what I did :eek:) and as a result I regret to tell the people who went and talked smack, and wished incarceration on me, and just basically disrespected me that since this guy can't make bail and consequently won't be able to testify against me in court the local DA decided to DROP THE CHARGES AND NOT PURSUE THE MATTER SINCE THE GUY DOESN'T WANT TO COME OFF AS A SNITCH WHILE SITTING IN JAIL !! LMAO !! Sweet, sweet karma baby ! Without a weapon, record of injuries, or a victim to complain they pretty much had no choice on the matter. I might even get back the money I used to post bail ! HA ! To you little payasos from abroad who had the nerve to out right state that you "hoped" I did hard time, don't you EVER.... and I mean EEEEVER wish incarceration on another person man. It shows a lack of taste and class and is just out right bad karma guys. And in an even sweeter twist, the girl who set me off that night recently changed her mind and has expressed interest in me ever since I started attempting to rekindle things with my ex (she was originally a last resort but if things work out between me and my real interest I can finally bounce her big butt out of my life for good, hehe) ! Gotta love that sweet lady luck baby !

 

Don't y'all just love those quirky one of a kind happy endings :cool: ?

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Well I just thought I'd bring up this thread with a rather important update on things. I know that when I initially created this thread that I was in a bad spot over a heartache induced snap moment. Many people here deemed my actions over the top. They blatantly expressed their disapproval of my actions and even sympathized with my victim. They out right said they hope I do hard time for my actions. In a way I can understand that. I mean after all, I broke a man's jaw, collarbone, arm, and a few ribs with an ASP collapsible baton. Such actions are completely inexcusable. Shame on me.

 

Yup, you're right there. Shame on you.

 

A while back my victim was arrested for his alleged role in a series of home invasions (and you all think *I* was the bad guy for what I did :eek:)

This is irellevant. This is unconnected to what you did to him. It's completely immaterial, what kind of person he is. it seems from your actions, you merely lowered yourself to his level. His actions have no bearing on yours.

 

and as a result I regret to tell the people who went and talked smack, and wished incarceration on me, and just basically disrespected me

Nobody did any of those things. we merely tried to impress upon you that volatile, aggressive, hostile and violent actions actually did you no favours on here, and didn't put you in either a favourable or good light.

 

that since this guy can't make bail and consequently won't be able to testify against me in court the local DA decided to DROP THE CHARGES AND NOT PURSUE THE MATTER SINCE THE GUY DOESN'T WANT TO COME OFF AS A SNITCH WHILE SITTING IN JAIL !! LMAO !!

 

That would probably be based on legal circumstances, but it actually doesn't take away what you did. The fact that the matter is legally complex doesn't make you anny better, or any less guilty.

 

Sweet, sweet karma baby ! Without a weapon, record of injuries, or a victim to complain they pretty much had no choice on the matter. I might even get back the money I used to post bail ! HA !

Well, I'd like to think this might be a good lesson to you, to temper your reactions and learn to control yourself, and maybe count it as a blessing in disguise, but I somehow don't think it will.

 

To you little payasos from abroad who had the nerve to out right state that you "hoped" I did hard time, don't you EVER.... and I mean EEEEVER wish incarceration on another person man. It shows a lack of taste and class and is just out right bad karma guys.

As a Buddhist who practices Ahimsa, I doubt very much you actually understand the workings of Karma. An awful lot of people talk about Karma, little realising actually what they're exactly talking about....

 

And in an even sweeter twist, the girl who set me off that night recently changed her mind and has expressed interest in me ever since I started attempting to rekindle things with my ex (she was originally a last resort but if things work out between me and my real interest I can finally bounce her big butt out of my life for good, hehe) ! Gotta love that sweet lady luck baby !

We have tried telling you - the girl didn't set you off. YOU set you off, in reaction to her stimulus. You had a choice. You chose to use violence against this guy and did him some damage. That doesn't make you right, clever or justified...

Karma works both ways. Do let us know if things go pear-shaped.

I wonder if you will sound as enthusiastic and euphoric when they do....

 

Don't y'all just love those quirky one of a kind happy endings ?

 

What's 'happy' about it? Has it 'ended' yet, or are things still in progress?

 

I'm pleased matters turned out so fortunately for you, but none of this is to your credit. \you didn't effect the improvement. Somebody else intervened. so in fact, you are still no 'better' than you were before.

But keep smiling. And waiting.....

 

I am..... :cool:

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Don't y'all just love those quirky one of a kind happy endings :cool: ?

Oh I'm sure this story is not ended yet.

And when it does, I very much doubt we'll hear about it!

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You two puercos are frickin party poopers man. Did it ever occur to you that I didn't ask for any of this, it just literally fell on my lap. So you two know I was in fact talking to my ex about my problem, something she was totally unaware of (none of them are, even if you told them trust me, they'd never believe it.) I was in fact readying myself for incarceration. I saved up so I could buy better chow at the cantina they have in there. I made a list of books I wanted to read while in there. Heck, I even tried to see if I could go to court sooner that way I could just quit my job on good terms, hurry up and just get my bit over with and get my job back when I got out so I didn't fall into the whole can't get a job cuz I have a record, have a record cuz I can't get a job routine. I accepted that my real love interest wasn't feeling me and had been reconsiling with my ex (nice to have something to go to right before and after you do your bit if you catch my drift).

 

I'm oh so sorry that here in the good ol US of A you are innocent until proven guilty in a court of law. In the justice system, there's this thing called due process. You guys know what that means ? It means you don't get punished for your actions until the facts are known. If I had gone to court, it wouldn't take much to claim self defense. My victim was at least 60 to 80 lbs bigger than me (disparity of force). I made several attempts to evade him (duty to retreat). And last but not least, not only did he still try and attack me while clearly seeing I was armed (depraved indifference, which legally and morally justifies lethal force) but he still tried to clinch with me even after I whacked him several times ! The first strike was right over his head. He wobbled a bit and I made the mistake of letting my guard down thinking I'd subdued him, but he literally went bonkers and charged at me ! All I can explain is he grabbed me and wouldn't let me go, no matter how many times I hit him, so I just kept on hitting him until he let me go. If you just quit being a bunch of hoplophobic, self righteous pacifists and just comprehend that while violence is, in fact, never a good thing, some times it's justified. That's just how it is man. DEAL WITH IT !

 

For what it's worth I did learn my lesson. You can't just be a total nice guy all the time, it's pretty futile nowadays, but you can't be a jerk either. Gotta assimiliate both rather than go from one extreme to another. And that's what i do now. This girl wants to give me a chance finally ? That's cool, but I already outright told her that she got me in a twist once, she better not do it again. If she does that's cool if not, well let's just say I'll be a little more... cool and precise in my reactions rather than blindly furious. After all if there's anything to learn from this all it's that being calmly precise is alot wiser and practical than being wreckless and belligerent, know what I mean fellas :cool: ?

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