cute-babes Posted February 21, 2004 Posted February 21, 2004 okay hi me again well i kinda have a problem there is this lad that i really like but the problem is its the smae guy my best mate has recently been dateing but now they are finnished, but i liked him the whole time but did not once mention it to either my best mate or him , now they have split up i told my mate she seemd cool with me but the lad when i told him he told me he liked me to and now wants to meet up with me and stuff and see each other but i cant help feel its wrong on my best mate todo this to her even though she had cheated on him what should i do do you think i should start seeing him and see what happens or what loli really need help i am meant to be meeting him monday thank-you jen xx
gaia Posted February 22, 2004 Posted February 22, 2004 i have been in this situation from the other side (twice!) The first time, my friend just started going out with the guy and i felt really let down by her. I didn't mind about the guy as it was over with us, but I felt she hadn't considered me at all. I never trusted her again. The second time, my friend talked to me about her feelings for my ex and we had a long chat about it. She ended up going out with him and it was fine. Give your mate time to tell you how she really feels. Whatever you do, don't just start seeing him without telling her. Good luck
Author cute-babes Posted February 22, 2004 Author Posted February 22, 2004 Thank-you so much ile laways put my best mate first b4 him so if she not okay with me and him ile ex-cept and move on i suppose so shes happy my friendship always comes 1st in this situation Thank-you so much jen xx
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