pinedsafe54 Posted September 7, 2010 Posted September 7, 2010 I've been dating this girl for about a month now and things haven't really been going as well I thought they would. She seemed like she was really into me before we started dating and her best friend even told me that she liked me. I gave it a little time to see if i actually wanted to ask her out. I really did, and still do, like this girl so i asked her out. When i asked her out she said that we should give it a try and mentioned that it might be a little bit rough for me. I'm now starting to see why. I have a lot of contact with her best friend, she tells me stuff about my gf and i help her out with her relationships. She has told me that my gf is very nervous about guys and I am no exception. I kind of got the feeling that she didn't really want to hang out with me, but later on found out that she does this to all of her friends, so that made me feel a little bit better. Last night i went over to her best friends house and she asked me, "would you want me to tell you if she was going to break up with you?" I then questioned her about why she would ask me this. She said that the other night as she was leaving my gf's house, she grabbed her by the arm and said "I don't think I like him anymore." This came as a surprise to me. I called her immediately after our conversation. I called her up and said, "Sometimes I really don't think that you're into this relationship anymore, and if there was anything going, then i would want you to tell me." She told me that she has her days where she really likes me and then she has her days where she feels like she leading me on. She said she really cares about me as a person and that shes very "bipolar" when it comes to guys. She hasn't really had a boyfriend for more than a week. She said that she focuses on the awkward situations that we have, which are very few, but is the kind of person that focuses on the bad things and not the good things in a relationship. She also said that she wants to put her school work before anything this year, including me. I can understand that and that's fine with me. We both go to different schools and she mentioned that it would be difficult for us to hang out with our different schedules. I told her i would really like to work something out with our relationship and she agreed. After the conversation I thought about what i should do and i decided that I really want to stay with this girl. I really believe that we can work something out, but I really don't know how to approach this or if i should even attempt to do this. Its pretty clear to me that she has a problem when it comes to guys and that shes scared of commitment. I really want to help her and make this thing work. What should i do?
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