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Is it impossible to date girls in college if you lack a group of friends?

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I am having trouble finding a group of friends which will let me in. I have a few individual friends, but thats it. It seems that some guys who are close to my height, or aren't hot, have many female friends or have had sexual partners, but they all have a lot of friends. I admit I came into my school with much worse social skills and 23 lbs heavier than now, but I don't have a group of friends I always hang out with. Does that doom my chances to get girls?

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your the guy who made a thread complaining about his ass being to fat right... dude you crack me up. Serously if you just step out of your head for a moment you'll see that you already know and have everything you need to date some sexy exciting college chicks. You don't need to change (get a group of friends) you just need to TRY and Be yourself for a change. Tell me how have you tried in the past month to get a girl...

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your the guy who made a thread complaining about his ass being to fat right... dude you crack me up. Serously if you just step out of your head for a moment you'll see that you already know and have everything you need to date some sexy exciting college chicks. You don't need to change (get a group of friends) you just need to TRY and Be yourself for a change. Tell me how have you tried in the past month to get a girl...

I try to make conversation with them when I see them, sometimes on campus, sometimes at parties, or at this dance club everyone goes to on Saturdays. I try to sit at lunch with some, or have facebook chats but I've not gotten anywhere, minus one girl back in April, who wasn't interested afterwards, tho I did tell a few people after it. I tried to talk to her again two days ago, but she showed little interest in chatting.

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hey broham...if all else fails, try some Ambien and handcuffs.

Works wonders.

 

jk

 

But seriously, do it.

:D

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I am having trouble finding a group of friends which will let me in. I have a few individual friends, but thats it. It seems that some guys who are close to my height, or aren't hot, have many female friends or have had sexual partners, but they all have a lot of friends. I admit I came into my school with much worse social skills and 23 lbs heavier than now, but I don't have a group of friends I always hang out with. Does that doom my chances to get girls?

 

 

Of course not . Give yourself more credit. You can make tons of new friends in college. Just put yourself out there. Each day gone is one you will never get back. So make up your mind to go for it ; tomorrow

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Of course not . Give yourself more credit. You can make tons of new friends in college. Just put yourself out there. Each day gone is one you will never get back. So make up your mind to go for it ; tomorrow

ok but what do I do when almost nobody ever invites me anywhere, no matter how friendly they act to me in person? I put myself out there all the time.

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ok but what do I do when almost nobody ever invites me anywhere, no matter how friendly they act to me in person? I put myself out there all the time.

 

Invite yourself out and stop making excuses.

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You can do your own thing. That's what I do.

 

It is NOT impossible. Just don't give up, keep looking, and you'll meet someone nice who is interested in you sooner or later. Just work to be an interesting person and be ready to care about them as well.

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I was invisible in highschool and literally had about 5 good friends, I had alot of aquiantances but wouldnt have called them friends.

 

 

When I got to college I was friends with everyone on my dorm floor and we would all go out together. It just happened naturally. You all live together why not be friends.

 

As far as having friends and meeting women, it sure as hell does not hurt.

 

A. You have more confidence when among a group of people you trust.

B. You build your network, guess what? those friends often know and meet GIRLS.

 

I can't count how many times when a party was drying up and a buddy would run up to me, "hey dude I met these girls and they want us to come back to their place and party".

 

Although it didnt ultimately work out, I met my recent ex girlfriend of nearly 7 years when I was 21 and started dating her at 22 (I am now 28)through a friend.

 

a buddy from my dorm was friends with a girl, and my future girlfriend lived on that girls dorm floor.

So no, you dont "need" friends, but from personal experience it sure as hell makes women much easier to meet because you dont essentially have to "cold call" them when you are frequently being introduced to new women all the time and are then officially aquianted and can casually talk to them going forward.

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