somuchforthat Posted September 7, 2010 Posted September 7, 2010 I have some general questions of womens behavior. i graduated undergrad a while back and meet a bunch of new people when i changed towns. So there is a group of friends and in this group there are two girls, we will call them A and B. My roommate was going to school in the new town i moved too and i went to the library just to get some other work i had to do. So i went to the library w him and thats when i met girl A. We chatted and such. A few days later i was invited to my roomates friends bday party. So i go to the party ( at a club) my roommate is there and so are some of our other common friends and so is girl A. Me and girl A kinda just hit it off i guess? Well she basically took my hand and we dispareared for a while lol. She is a little shorter than me ( to my neck) she was wearing lipstick and bam there went my shirt. It has lipstick stains all over it and i only realized this the next day and by then the shirt was ruined lol At this point i dont know Girl A that well ( as in does she like me or does she just kinda do this w new poeple she meets) Anyway we later meet up w everyone and go get some food at denny's its like 4 am by now and we part our seperate ways ( i had to take care of bday boy since he was gone lol ) Fast forward a few weeks i meet Girl A and the other group of friends including Girl B at the library. Granted i have been to the libraray several times before this and both Girl A and Girl B have seen me there. i just go w my roommate usually. I start hanging out w Girl A for a while, movies, happy hour meeting up at clubs and whatever. There was one night when i ended up talking to her on the phone for 3 hours! (2am-5am) just about random stuff. Through out that call she said several times that " you know i dont like you right" She also initiated the hand holding through the movies for the most part! i did also sometimes since i figured she was okay w it bc she started it lol Now i was confused i didnt wtc was going on. Girl B in that group a few weeks prior said that she and other girls were pretty certain girl A liked me based on the one time when we were all at the library and Girl A was acting shy/embarrassed or something like that . Girl A has a very flirty personality and a bit of drama mixed in...she is like that w a lot of people not just me and so i just brushed it off at that point. I kinda toned down the hanging out w girl A i mean we still meet up at times w freinds but just no where near as much as we used too. One time we were supposed to watch a movie and i told her to look at times and the theater lol and she told me the wrong theater (that was a honest mistake lol) Long story short i get a fb message months later ( like 2-3 months since we last saw each other ) and girl A is all pissed asking why i tired to hold her hand and crap... i was like whatever you initiated all this anyway. She also kinda asked the" What do u see me as" and you know we are friends and etc...you get the drift. More importantly why the F is it coming up now? Months since we last saw each other? wtc.. so im not sure what happened. Just want some analysis or closure or something never really understood what that was all about
PegNosePete Posted September 7, 2010 Posted September 7, 2010 You're been friendzoned. Sounds like she likes to play with people's emotions.
L3stat Posted September 7, 2010 Posted September 7, 2010 i do agree with the above post, shes mind ****ing you, shes either confuse, or bi polar or something, either way i would just back off and date other people. 1. talking to a girl one phone for hours doenst mean anything 2. other girls saying she likes you, doesnt mean anything] 3. Be a man
Author somuchforthat Posted September 7, 2010 Author Posted September 7, 2010 ok thx for the input/perspective
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