jshafferhines Posted September 7, 2010 Posted September 7, 2010 Hey all, Im 19 and i've been dating this girl for 4 years now. We have had an unbelievable relationship. This girl is almost perfect. She is also 19 and has almost her whole life figured out with what she wants to do. She is smart, pretty, and great in the sack . Past couple of months we have been fighting alot about stupid stuff, basically she is very very controlling. Every week it seems like she comes to me with something else that she is upset that I am doing. Getting on my nerves soo much. She loves to party, drink and smoke weed which I do as well, so thats awesome cause we can do that together and have a great time. Recently I have developed kind of a small problem. I have been doing this new drug that I really like to do but am not addicted to. I have not told her that I do it because she is strongly against anything harder than weed and alcohol. I am not in love with her anymore but still love her. I think i'm not in love with her because I have to lie to her so much about drugs and feel very guilty. I kind of need/want to be single for a while and we are on a semester break which will hopefully help. But I am out of ideas what I should do and would much appreciate if someone who took their time to read all this could help me please. Thanks in advance for any advice Jesse
Bridgey Posted September 7, 2010 Posted September 7, 2010 Sounds to me like you have already made up your mind. 4 years is a long time to stay with someone when you are so young (learned that from personal experience). If the two of you just aren't as strong of a couple as you used to be and you aren't happy anymore, you know what you have to do. On a side note: If this new drug you are using is somehow the cause of falling out of love with your gf I would be concerned. I have no right to tell you what to do, but the situation sounds iffy in my personal opinion. Take care of yourself and I hope the situation with your gf gets figured out
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