Iselia Posted September 6, 2010 Posted September 6, 2010 I looked at her posts on a website. Honestly, I'm glad I did. It hurt to find out what she's doing, but you know what? My ex is a druggie (not just weed), a party girl, and a whore now. I know now, without a doubt, I am 1000000000000000000000 times better off without her in my life. I love who she use to be. This new girl can go to hell.
Don Ho Posted September 6, 2010 Posted September 6, 2010 I looked at her posts on a website. Honestly, I'm glad I did. It hurt to find out what she's doing, but you know what? My ex is a druggie (not just weed), a party girl, and a whore now. I know now, without a doubt, I am 1000000000000000000000 times better off without her in my life. I love who she use to be. This new girl can go to hell. Sometimes we need a harsh reality check to make us come to our senses and finally put an end to our misery and decide to move forward with our lives.
hurt and devastated Posted September 6, 2010 Posted September 6, 2010 I agree completely, Don. It took a friend of mine to point out my STBXW's profile on AFF to finally wake me up to the fact she was done with me, and I was wasting my time hoping we were ever going to work things out. Getting the emotional equivalent to a kick in the groin is never pleasant, but it certainly gets your attention.
Username37 Posted September 7, 2010 Posted September 7, 2010 I can relate my friend. I've been keeping up with you and we have similar stories. My ex too is a druggie whore now. It's ridicious man. She use to be so sweet and everything (taken yours was too) Just let them crash and burn
Author Iselia Posted September 7, 2010 Author Posted September 7, 2010 I can relate my friend. I've been keeping up with you and we have similar stories. My ex too is a druggie whore now. It's ridicious man. She use to be so sweet and everything (taken yours was too) Just let them crash and burn She was sweet and very kind. Not anymore though. I honestly just feel disgusted when I think of what she's doing now. She's in the crazy teenage phase that she never got. Wonder if I'm ever going to have one of those. Probably not.
Username37 Posted September 8, 2010 Posted September 8, 2010 She was sweet and very kind. Not anymore though. I honestly just feel disgusted when I think of what she's doing now. She's in the crazy teenage phase that she never got. Wonder if I'm ever going to have one of those. Probably not. Same here. And in my situation, she is a teenager who wants her life to be like the **** she watches on TV. I swear to God, teenagers are so corrupted with those stupid movies and TV shows...thinking they can all be Stiffers and all of that. Makes me sick. We can have our own fun without resorting to that ****.
Author Iselia Posted September 8, 2010 Author Posted September 8, 2010 Same here. And in my situation, she is a teenager who wants her life to be like the **** she watches on TV. I swear to God, teenagers are so corrupted with those stupid movies and TV shows...thinking they can all be Stiffers and all of that. Makes me sick. We can have our own fun without resorting to that ****. My ex claims she wants to live her life. I thought living was seeing the beauty and simplicty in little things and just enjoying life? I didn't know screwing around and alcohol constituted living life.
Fickle Sticks Posted September 8, 2010 Posted September 8, 2010 Yup. Same with my ex-gf now. Huge attention whore and self-esteem problems. Now drinks and parties way too much while bombing school. But NC is great. If it weren't for that I might've been dragged into the midst of that.
Username37 Posted September 8, 2010 Posted September 8, 2010 My ex claims she wants to live her life. I thought living was seeing the beauty and simplicty in little things and just enjoying life? I didn't know screwing around and alcohol constituted living life. She wants to be young I suppose...I'm pretty sure that's the reason why many of them change after a breakup. Yup. Same with my ex-gf now. Huge attention whore and self-esteem problems. Now drinks and parties way too much while bombing school. But NC is great. If it weren't for that I might've been dragged into the midst of that. My ex parties, but she's doing well in school. Could be valedictorian. I hope she fails honestly.. NC is great. Stick to it!
flyguy23 Posted September 8, 2010 Posted September 8, 2010 Yeah my ex hated drinking when she was with me, but now she drinks all the time.
Nikki Sahagin Posted September 8, 2010 Posted September 8, 2010 Good for you Sometimes breaking contact can be beneficial, although its risky. I've caught my ex on the net making very sexist, misogynist comments, which he never did before, and I felt a huge sense of relief that I was no longer close to a man who thought/felt that way, although I sense its an act stemming from his mother issues and potentially resentment towards me, although that i'm not definite on.
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