xpaperxcutx Posted September 5, 2010 Posted September 5, 2010 explain to me why certain people act this way? I doubt it's me and more of other people, but it seems that most if not all of the people I know like to contact me out of the blue after a good amount of time. Almost all of the situation usually involve us cutting each other off previously. I have a habit- once I cut someone out of my life, they're gone. I erase their number, and I for one never asks how they are. Yet, due to some circumstances, people like to pop back into my life like ghosts, which is definitely a gesture I don't appreciate. Several instances- - guy I knew way back March who was just using me for sex ( and vice-versa) disappeared in early April only to reappear recently to ask ever politely about restarting things. I kindly declined and told him to f- himself for even suggesting me to introduce him to any of my female friends. - guy who I used to know 4 years ago comes back into my life wanting me to be his girlfriend and even suggested we move in together. - guy friend who has drama with his ex gf contacts me about his bday after disappearing for a month - girl who told me never to contact her again back in August texted me this weekend Why are people like this? I never put myself out there to be mistreated like this. I'm not a toy to be used and thrown out. So why even come back into my life when we have adamantly shut each other out. I hate this. Sometimes I wish I can wipe my entire friendships slate clean and start over without all this drama.
WalkingtheAbyss Posted September 6, 2010 Posted September 6, 2010 Blimey, you seem to lack patience in my eyes. I have friends who i dont speak for months but when we do its as though we only spoke yesterday. To cut somebody from your life that you've not spoken to in a month or so seems pretty harsh to me.
Author xpaperxcutx Posted September 12, 2010 Author Posted September 12, 2010 Blimey, you seem to lack patience in my eyes. I have friends who i dont speak for months but when we do its as though we only spoke yesterday. To cut somebody from your life that you've not spoken to in a month or so seems pretty harsh to me. As severe as my actions may sound, I have every right to cut someone out of my life if I view them as bad influences. And they were. Some of the people were just down right negative, and others had ulterior motives ( ie. trying to get in my pants). I gave them more chances then I could count, some of them undeserving of it.
Author xpaperxcutx Posted September 12, 2010 Author Posted September 12, 2010 Also, this isn't about me " cutting " them off as opposed to why they feel the need to come back into my life so abruptly.
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