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My boyfriend doesn't find me sexually attractive anymore

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Tattyteddy New Member

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Ok here's my story. I'm 24 and my boyfriends 26, we have been together for 10years. We've had our problems in the past like most couples but have always been strong.

We get on great, always having a laugh and enjoy eachovers company. Until recently when we was having an argument he said he's bored now. At first he said the sex was routine which I could understand and said we could try new things, bout now he's saying its not as easy as that because he doesn't fancy me or find me sexually attractive anymore. He doesn't cuddle me anymore or hold my hand. I dnt even think he wants me to touch him anymore.

 

I'm absolutly devastated and don't know what to do. 10yrs is a long time and I want to get that spark back. How can I be attractive to him again?

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So you all have been together since you were 14? Think about it, you've been together since you were young teens and you're now in your 20's and still pretty young. Have you both just dated each other only since that time?

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Ok here's my story. I'm 24 and my boyfriends 26, we have been together for 10years. We've had our problems in the past like most couples but have always been strong.

We get on great, always having a laugh and enjoy eachovers company. Until recently when we was having an argument he said he's bored now. At first he said the sex was routine which I could understand and said we could try new things, bout now he's saying its not as easy as that because he doesn't fancy me or find me sexually attractive anymore. He doesn't cuddle me anymore or hold my hand. I dnt even think he wants me to touch him anymore.

 

I'm absolutly devastated and don't know what to do. 10yrs is a long time and I want to get that spark back. How can I be attractive to him again?

 

Sorry girl, its more than that, and if anything you might want cut back on the sex, he may need a little more "hard to get" than "come and get it". And as a man, it pains me to say that last bit.

 

Honestly, you both grown so much over this crucial period in your lives, it looks to me like it's over, you both probably drifted apart, this isn't unusual, no marriages last at such a young age, same goes for LTRs. I'd seriously try to kick off this next decade with a new life, and with a new man. Trust me, you string this along, you'll really wish you didn't ...

 

PS> Again - You can't fix this, you guys are two different people, don't waste any more time trying to patch it up, also, you push him away, you'll see if he wants you back anyway..

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