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Thank you Mary3 & Loveaddict. YES, Male Attention Wh*re!~ Exactly it. I'm loving the fact that I slapped "no contact" on his stupid head immediately. Don't think that happens to him that much, obviously. Look at all the stupid women chasing him. Ugh. I'm one smart cookie! Taught that dummy a lesson that some women are NOT interested. :rolleyes:

 

I honestly believe that guys put women on the defensive so they will have to work to earn their approval.

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In my defense, it was ONLY the third date! Guys get away with being aloof, why can't women?!

 

I used to be on the other side of the spectrum, give too freely, reveal too quickly. Now, I am not.

 

It's like I'm bruising their ego or something.

 

It really isn't a matter of "guys being aloof, why can't women?" People who are naturally aloof get away with it because that is who they are. If you try to be aloof but you really aren't; it shows. You have to be who you are because the real you will surface sooner or later.

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Thank you Mary3 & Loveaddict. YES, Male Attention Wh*re!~ Exactly it. I'm loving the fact that I slapped "no contact" on his stupid head immediately. Don't think that happens to him that much, obviously. Look at all the stupid women chasing him. Ugh. I'm one smart cookie! Taught that dummy a lesson that some women are NOT interested. :rolleyes:

 

I honestly believe that guys put women on the defensive so they will have to work to earn their approval.

 

Your welcome :) Just curious , is this guy handsome ? He has alot of girls befriending him , lol...

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Mary3, he's a hunk. Tattoos and all. He's got all the good Italian looks with salt n' pepper hair. Full wavy head of hair at 47 yrs old. Damn.

 

*sigh*

 

Anyways, so I rejoined the dating site where I met him. Now, he showing up in my compatibility list daily at the tippy-top as a 100% match. I get lots of matches at 97% and 95%, but by no means 100%. I don't remember him being at the top of my matches before.

 

Except him.

 

That is a bit strange and coincidental. :confused:

 

But, I'll just brush it off.

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Mary3, he's a hunk. Tattoos and all. He's got all the good Italian looks with salt n' pepper hair. Full wavy head of hair at 47 yrs old. Damn.

 

*sigh*

 

Anyways, so I rejoined the dating site where I met him. Now, he showing up in my compatibility list daily at the tippy-top as a 100% match. I get lots of matches at 97% and 95%, but by no means 100%. I don't remember him being at the top of my matches before.

 

Except him.

 

That is a bit strange and coincidental. :confused:

 

But, I'll just brush it off.

 

I know that site . Does it have an A in the word ? I had a guy match me 100% and he worked with me !...what are the odds...He was a handsome italian too but he liked to cheat on his wife- I should explain he was on the site when he was single , then he married and he cheated ... ( not with me , he cracked me up but I never did anything with the guy )

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