Sonolumino Posted September 5, 2010 Posted September 5, 2010 My ex broke up with me in late July. I went no contact for 5 weeks and I was forced into seeing her at various parties and such. And, one thing led to another, and we made out at one of those parties. I asked her if she wanted to hang out the next day, she said "it was too soon" so we waited a whole week, I texted her only 3 times, and we met for coffee. She was apprehensive about the date at first (wouldn't hold eye contact, seemed nervous), but then we got to talking and it seemed like she didn't want it to end, and we both had a really good time. So we've been texting and such, I asked her to go running with me two days after the coffee date, and she declines because she had "to finish a paper". I didn't push the issue. She said that I should come over next week and "fix her computer" and pick up a piece of exercise equipment that I left over her house. I agreed. Now, here's where things get weird. I get a call today from a friend who's very loyal to me who works with my ex at the same job. My friend told me that my ex told her that she was really excited about going out tonight with her friends and especially had an interest in this guy that gave her his number and who she thought was cute. I was very, very angry. I thought we were on the road to recovery, or at least that she would not lead me on by flirting, making out with me at that party, texting, etc.. My question is, how should I proceed? Why can't she just tell me she doesn't want to be with me anymore so I can have closure? Or does she want to be with me and just is trying to make me jealous? Why would I fall in love with such an immature bitch? Should I go over house and act like nothing's wrong, then tell her off and leave forever? Or just not answer anymore texts and just disappear? Or the always good third option of beating the Hell out of that guy and yelling like a caveman? Any and all thoughts are appreciated.
VeveCakes Posted September 5, 2010 Posted September 5, 2010 Sorry to say this, but you are the back up. Being strung along if things fall through with the new guys she's scoped out.
Author Sonolumino Posted September 5, 2010 Author Posted September 5, 2010 So should I just stop talking to her? I love this girl deeply and I'd like to keep in contact with her in case our paths should cross again.
bboy Posted September 5, 2010 Posted September 5, 2010 So should I just stop talking to her? I love this girl deeply and I'd like to keep in contact with her in case our paths should cross again. Stay cool and back off a bit from this girl.
skydiveaddict Posted September 5, 2010 Posted September 5, 2010 Any and all thoughts are appreciated. Have nothing more to do with her. I despise being used and that is what she's doing to you
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