mitchellhopkins Posted September 5, 2010 Posted September 5, 2010 I'm 17, close to 18. Shes 15 close to 16. I live in Oregon she lives in Ohio. We just celebrated our 1 year 2 weeks ago. I love her with all my heart and I know she feels the same way about me. I saw her for the first time in almost a year on August 12th. We spent a weekend together and it was the best time of my life. The transition back to reality has been hard for both of us, but I think more so for me. I now know from experience that we are great together in person, physically, as well as mentally and spiritually. I just hate knowing I have to wait for school to end before I can see her again, (that's when she can come to Oregon this time to see me, I flew last time). We talk on webcams, have regular phone sex, play games on skype, and of course just have normal conversations on the phone, it all just seems like a step below what we had on the weekend we were together. That weekend only strengthened the love I have for her, and I am willing to wait for however long it takes for us to be together again. I am very tired though of the limited amount of time we have to talk because of our surroundings, plus I just need something fresh. I don't know what we can do, but I need something to spice things up so the next 10 months don't go so slow.
Unistudent Posted September 5, 2010 Posted September 5, 2010 I really don't want to sound insensitive (and ill try not to)... and I am sure that what you feel is strong/intense. I was 16 when I started dating my X gf... I dated her for 9 years. Biggest mistake of my life. What you honestly don't see when your that young is that you have so much growing to do mentally. We grew into two completely different people by the time we broke up... we were really just together (for the last 3-4 years) because it got comfortable. I am by no ways saying that you two should break up... just that you are both really young and try not to become so obsessive about the whole relationship thing. To your post now. Yeah nothing can really compare to the attraction/energy that you feel when you are together so I wouldn't expect anything to really fix the feeling that you are having right now (like its not enough). I have a constant ache in my gut from missing my gf... so I get how you are feeling. Be strong and keep the conversations/activities going. Watch yourself and keep enjoying life. gl
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