MelanieLynMarie Posted September 5, 2010 Posted September 5, 2010 How do you deal with them? Its so hard. Being away from him is really tough, and not being able to show him how much i care about him physically....but it makes me want him more, which is weird. We haven't met in person yet , but we will be very soon. Is anyone in a LDR who is feeling the same sexual urges about your SO...and how did you deal with it when you saw them after that period of time. I want him so bad....
Citizen Erased Posted September 5, 2010 Posted September 5, 2010 I deal with it by jumping him the first chance I get when we are together. And lots of phone sex (or rather skype sex ) when we are apart.
aerogurl87 Posted September 5, 2010 Posted September 5, 2010 Lots of phone sex, sexy texts, and when I first saw my boyfriend in person I couldn't keep my hands off him, lol. Can't wait to be able to be with him again.
Unistudent Posted September 5, 2010 Posted September 5, 2010 For me and my SO it got 1000x harder after she got back home. It is so so so amazing though once you first get to hold one another... and I know the next time is going to be even more intense. We don't do any of the skype stuff... mainly because I don't know how that works... and I wouldn't want some person somehow copying the video and posting it on the internet ya know? We deal with it roughly... to be honest. Lots of talk of what we would do to each other if we were together... etc.. but that can also be slightly depressing as well. Gl and be strong It's so worth it in the end.
LisaLee Posted September 5, 2010 Posted September 5, 2010 We don't do any of the skype stuff... mainly because I don't know how that works... and I wouldn't want some person somehow copying the video and posting it on the internet ya know? . You can't copy the Skype video. That is impossible. Skype is very user friendly, btw. As to the OP's original question, How do we deal? By having copious amounts of sex when we see each other. We actually don't do the Skype and phone sex too much, but I know he masturbates quite a bit. Smells are very powerful for him, so he use to have an article of clothing of mine that smelled like me that he would use. I took it back on his last visit though, so now he just has memories of us and porn to get off on.
Romance Posted September 7, 2010 Posted September 7, 2010 We have a lot of sex when we do see each other but sometimes it is very hard! I dislike phone sex so we don't do anything. We kinda just take care of it on our own and don't talk of it.
HeavenOrHell Posted September 7, 2010 Posted September 7, 2010 (edited) Sexy texts and emails, msn/skype chats, phone sex. We meet every 6 weeks and make the most of each other then. We first met about 3 or 4 months after we first got in touch online, we're both quite shy but when we first met I just hugged him tightly, and one thing led to another and it was as amazing as we'd imagined. In between our meet ups we talk about what we want to do to each other and what we want them to do to us next time, I love the anticipation We also talk about what we have done with each other already. If he's not about (at work or whatever) to share stuff with I just do my own thing and fantasise. How do you deal with them? Its so hard. Being away from him is really tough, and not being able to show him how much i care about him physically....but it makes me want him more, which is weird. We haven't met in person yet , but we will be very soon. Is anyone in a LDR who is feeling the same sexual urges about your SO...and how did you deal with it when you saw them after that period of time. I want him so bad.... Edited September 7, 2010 by HeavenOrHell
chelle21689 Posted September 14, 2010 Posted September 14, 2010 I deal with it by jumping him the first chance I get when we are together. And lots of phone sex (or rather skype sex ) when we are apart. LMAO! That's what we usually do when we get the chance. I'm very very embarassed to tell this story and I'll never do it again but it's kinda funny to tell. In July, when I was visiting him I had to stay at his friend's house and there was NO PRIVACY! We wanted it so badly after bein apart for so long but we had no where to go. One day, we went out to the movies...and then we realized that the room was COMPLETELY empty and it was dark. So we were about to get at it and then the manager walked in and kicked us out. GOD so embarassing! We ended up trying to rake our money up and get a hotel for the night...just ONE night for the week of intimacy...HAHHA.... Anyways, I never been the type to feel tempted to cheat at all. I'm completely against it, so not having him there sexually isn't that bad to me. We get on the webcams and do things...sometimes we watch eachother shower and do stuff, he watches me do things, it helps. Not the same...but it helps! I like dirty talk but he doesn't do it at all -_-...few years back before we slept together (we were only 16-17ish) we had phone sex lol. It was okay...he sucks at writing sexual things even though he's good at writing stories and scripts..odd
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