shygal1 Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 My ex and I have a long history. We dated a yr and broke up because of family issues. I met him through family and he couldn't handle everyone knowing his business. He had a gf short after. 2 yrs later he came back saying leaving me was a mistake and his biggest regret. We began dating. Little fights then he brought me back into his house. I have caught him in white lies. we text fought. I went to see him and talk. He said he was sorry and he promised to change. I said I heard u say this before nothing changes. I don't want to hear sorry I want to know why. He froze up and gave no explanation. Then I went on to talk about commitment. He would not hear anything o what I was saying would not respond. just saying he loves me and wants to go slow. I said you need to commit or it's the end. He said nothing and let me walk out. What does anyone make of this ?? Why will he not commit or at least telle why and talk. He froze up and would not say I word. I sent him texts today and have gotten no responses.
Don Ho Posted September 6, 2010 Posted September 6, 2010 Do not ask, do not pressure, do not push. You're suppose to be enjoying each other and your time together. Don't fck it up with that stuff right now. Have your own sense of security about the "relationship" and chill. He's already let you know he doesn't want to deal with it right now. Isnt' this what I said about this in your other thread? What you don't like the answer so you just post different threads and then do what you want anyway? What's the point? If you're going to ask for advice, maybe you should listen and follow it! I told you NOT to bring up the relationship and NOT to pressure him. See how he's reacting? He's backing off and withdrawing. You need to just chill. If you can't, then move on and forget about him.
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