How to fix a very important relationship with your exgf after breakup?

September 4, 2010

I was the first guy she had ever had sex with, she told me she loved me very much every day, she wrote to me everyday,

and after 8 months together,

she went to work to a different country, where the attention she gets from men raised at least 20 times higher, and people are much richer.

She is very attractive.

Our relationship was not amazing, we don-t have lots of memories together,

but I want to change that and repair all things.

I became jealous, insecure, desperate, needy and I started calling her

everyday a lot, I started to lie to her and make up stories and ask for her

attention and for help. The little child within me was very hurt.

Immediately she started telling me that we need breakup, that she has other plans for life and so on.

The change in attitude was very very abrupt.

I went into very bad depression and in the last 40 days I sent her maybe 20 messages without her answering anymore,

but in her last messages she wrote me that I lost her forever,

and that she had sex with another man and probably that guy was much better in bed than me or something lik this I can only assume.

How can I still fix things?

I did all mistakes... I told her that I love her very much after breakup,

that I want to see the world together with her, and she didn-t answer to any of that anymore.

Her excuses were only excuses, and I know they were not true,

but the fact that I acted so desperate and needy repelled her very much.

How can I change things?

Now she imagines that I will love her forever, no matter with how many other guys she sleeps before returning home to our home country...

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