naeromagus Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 (edited) Okay, well my girlfriend of 13 months has recently broken up with me. To start off with i am 25 and she is recently 22. We always had a super close relationship.I am the best boyfriend she has ever had i treat her so well i am just perfect for her she could not ask for more she told me. Well basically she told me that she is not ready to commit in fear of hurting me which she said she knows she might do. For about 3 weeks before the breakup she was going out alot with her girlfriend from work and the girl's friends from work. she said that she knew she was hurting me by doing this, it made her feel so bad, that she couldn't stand it. She told me that the week prior to the break-up she couldn't hardly eat and was making her sick to her stomach.So thats why this had to happen, Her and i have some much trust for each other, I am sure that she would not lie to me, as i wouldn't to her, She said i am perfect for her, as all her friends do and parents and everyone close to her does. She said that she love's me and does want to get back together but just doesn't want to promise this just in case something does happen and she does not want me to hate her, but just needs some time to sort some things out , she said she could see herself being with me for a really long time, I have been her longest relationship and her first true love. she told me one of her ex's she thought was her first untill she met me, she was 16 when she thought that person was her first true love. so i could understand that, and also that she does not want to be committed for right now, because i for one was single when i was that age i understand her point, She told me that i am one of the most important people in her life right now and does not want to lose me and stay Really good friends for now besides her 2 best Friends, She told me she still wants to see me and hang out ,she just wants to get things out of her system before she totally commits to me. So That in the future she does not look back and have any regrets of not being able to do something that she wanted to do . I asked her if she has another Guy that she is interested in and also did she Cheat/mess up one of the nights she went out drinking, She told me no she did not cheat on me or has anyone else in mind. I know all of this was sincere coming from her because of how emotional she was crying (Bawling her eyes out) as was i. this was hard, I for one right now don't want to go out and date yet it is too soon for me i feel. But also in hopes of getting back together, If you knew this girl you would say the same as i am, as everyone does, She is one of the sweetest girls you will ever meet, she would never do anything intentional, i know for a fact just from seeing how she reacts to random people and friend of hers that treats her like ****, she never lashes out on them or anything evil, But what should i think that she wants to hang out still and i am still very important to her, and that she still loves me , should i go out and take it easy, or do you think that was her way of being nice and saying good-bye to being lovers,, Oh sorry one more thing, She told me she thought that it would never last this long, Because of all that failed luck of her previous relations. That she thought i would just get bored of her and leave her quick, She kept on saying a couple of times though the conversation that she wished i had came into her lift 2yrs from now it would be perfect, So do you think there is still a chance, or is it wishful thinking. Do you think this all happened because she got a bit scared how serious we both were getting since this is her First Relationship that lasted more than 5 months ? p.s Sorry for the poor Grammar But thank you for your reply Edited September 4, 2010 by naeromagus want to add something else in
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