whatwhit Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 My boyfriend and I had been dating for a year and a half. Wednesday August 25 two days after my birthday, and two days after I left to see him we are in a LDR. He broke it off. I sent him a message. He took the message as me trying to think longterm. He also thinks that we have been fighting a lot, I am too jealous. He feels like a change needs to be made and he doesn't know if its the right one but he decided to break up. Stating that he loves me and this is the best relationship he has ever been in. He was crying as well. So this is what I am confused about I suppose. I am going to write to ya'll whats been happening the past couple of days since we have broken up according to the days. So the day after we broke up he called me at like around 6 something pm. Acting like nothing was wrong...in that conversation he mentioned that he think we will get back together but i need to prove that i can get my **** together..not be so emotional and jealous. He also mentioned that hes having a hard time...but hes getting his **** together. day two of being broken up. for some reason i felt propelled to tell him i love him so i just sent him a simple text. i love you. like two hours later he responded with what are you up to today? i was like working blehh you? he was like reading sports/watch tv yada yada..and i was like sounds like fun. and he said just keeping myself busy this whole thing hasn't been easy for me at all. and i said this is what you wanted.and he replied back thanks for the reminder..and i wrote but i'm not trying to hurt you. didn't hear from him the rest of the day. day three. he calls me i was at work so i didn't response. he left me a voicemail that i accidently deleted and he sends me a text stating...sorry for that discombobulated message. i was just trying to find that words to say i guess. i love you. so then he called me that night and we talked. and i let me guard down. i feel like i messed up everyone has told me to not text him/call him/ talk about the relationship and i messed up. he told me he wants to be back together..but he broke up with me for a reason so he needs time to figure out why...yada yada..he bought me a football ticket to go to the first LSU game. day four. i text him i love you. then around 6 something i text him asking if he was busy. and i haven't heard from him all day. day five. he called me around noon and i couldnt answer b/c of work..and he left me a voice mail and is like HEY!! i just got your text message which is werid..i don't know what the hell is up with that..but anyways when you need mee..CALL ME BACK i dont go to work til four talk to you later bye. I didn't hear from him so I sent him a message on fb saying I don't even know why I am sending this. I guess you're handling this better than I am. I also guess you were kidding about LSU. He called me after that message. day six. he didn't call me all day. i wrote a jordin sparks lyric on my fb and he responded emoooo =P. Then he fb chatted me. It was a good conversation laughing and whatnot. day seven. he didn't call again all day. I called him that night/ texted..and it was just a emotional draining convo. day eight. i texted him have a good day. no response. So I was like I guess you don't want me in your life. I'll leave you alone. And he was like I am watching tv. Then he sent me another text stop freaking out whitney relax a little. I was like i'm not freaking out...i was just saying. We are supposed to video chat tonight but we shall see. I just don't get how if someone loves you how can they not be with you. Hes like there a good chance we will be back together. Then hes also like I want to get back together and then I don't. And the first few days after the break up he was like always calling and texting..and now not so much. I want to go see him in 2 week since he bought me the fb ticket..but like whats the use if he wants no contact with me. It a confusing situation. What do ya'll make out of it?
L3stat Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 yes i agree you need to go No Contact sounds like hes just confuse and wants you to prove to him why he should be with you tough love:cool:
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