short rubia Posted September 3, 2010 Posted September 3, 2010 So I've encountered a positive pregnancy test despite not actually doing the whole conception act and taking emergency contraception...and I've set up an appt to terminate already. I don't want any grief about that decision but I'm not sure if I should tell him. It's still very early in the relationship and it's very long distance. I want to tell him b/c obviously it involves the two of us. I want to include him b/c this would be a very big secret to keep and it could destroy things later on if the relationship progresses. Yet my mind is made up and I don't want him to try to convince me to keep it and that could end it there too. Either way, if it's supposed to end it will and I won't know until I do anything. But is this something I take care of myself or do I consult him first?
madjac74 Posted September 3, 2010 Posted September 3, 2010 Not to imply anything here but I wasnt quite sure from the post...this is his? If so then you definately should tell him. He has a right to know. Oh and get some birth control
carvidep Posted September 3, 2010 Posted September 3, 2010 So I've encountered a positive pregnancy test despite not actually doing the whole conception act... Wait, what do you mean with not doing the whole conception act? maybe it was a faulty test? or are those typically 100% accurate?
Bridgey Posted September 3, 2010 Posted September 3, 2010 If it's his you should definitely tell him. Even if you've made up your mind he has the right to know. You both decided to have sex, it's both of your decisions as to what to do now, even if it is a LDR.
aerogurl87 Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 Well babies aren't made by one person, so if it's his child you need to tell him. Just because you're carrying the child doesn't give you the right to make the decision on what happens to it's well being. His sperm impregnated your egg and he has every right to know about his unborn child as much as you do. By the way I'm confused by you saying that you didn't do the conception act? Are you saying you didn't have sex with him and that the baby is someone else's?
LisaLee Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 So I've encountered a positive pregnancy test despite not actually doing the whole conception act and taking emergency contraception... Whaaaat?? Curious, if you did take the Plan B how many days afterward did you wait to take them?
Rashad Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 So I've encountered a positive pregnancy test despite not actually doing the whole conception act and taking emergency contraception...and I've set up an appt to terminate already. I don't want any grief about that decision but I'm not sure if I should tell him. It's still very early in the relationship and it's very long distance. I want to tell him b/c obviously it involves the two of us. I want to include him b/c this would be a very big secret to keep and it could destroy things later on if the relationship progresses. Yet my mind is made up and I don't want him to try to convince me to keep it and that could end it there too. Either way, if it's supposed to end it will and I won't know until I do anything. But is this something I take care of myself or do I consult him first? So that decision was quick to be made, but you are having trouble deciding weather or not to tell his father. I say tell his father... and consider keeping the baby
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