k35 Posted September 3, 2010 Posted September 3, 2010 I am writing today because my mother in law past away yesterday morning. Amy was a good woman we did have our moment which I'm sure is normal. She had lung cancer 6 years ago and they removed two parts of her lung and she went through kemo. And all was well till 2yrs ago, when she got the bad news that the cancer had come back and they could not operate. She had been going through kemo and wanted to live for her grandbabies ( my 3 wonderful boys). She fought sooooooooo hard. And 4 weeks ago she got a scan and the tumors had shrunk and they were letting her take a break from kemo because she was doing so well. And then she had a heart attack. Everyone keeps saying well at least she went fast and didn't suffer. All I can think is what do you mean she has been going through kemo for 2 yrs vomiting and feeling so ill for so long. SHe suffered for longer then most. Any way I need some advice. I have never been an adult in this type of situation. What is an inlaw suppose to do? I am supporting my husband and my children. But am I suppose to send flowers or get cards for my husband and his sister and their step dad? I feel like I am not doing enough. We moved out of state a year ago and my husband feels guilty that he wasn't there. Please is there anything I should do or am I suppose to be doing?
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