Iconoclast Posted September 5, 2010 Posted September 5, 2010 19 and 52... uuuuhhhh. So easy to manipulate. If you were my daughter and found out, I would annihilate this parasite. Physically, emotionally and financially.
jj33 Posted September 5, 2010 Posted September 5, 2010 Honey Im sure he cared about you. How could he not? You sound like a wonderful girl. The thing is he took advantage of the situation. instead of saying she is a great girl. So wonderful to spend time with. Such a great woman. So beautiful. So sweet but I have NOTHING to offer her she deserves better, he took advantage. Be happy he has let go. And dont chase him any more. Its never good to chase ANY man. Never good to beg them or try to get them to spend time with you. You are a lovely woman and anyone who doesnt appreciate you isnt worth your time. Yes you are lonely right now but you will reconnect with your old friends or find new ones. Yes losing love hurts. But if this isnt the first time, it wont be the last. This man is not the one for you. Try your best to put it behind you and move forward.
Ellin Posted September 5, 2010 Posted September 5, 2010 Honey Im sure he cared about you. How could he not? You sound like a wonderful girl. The thing is he took advantage of the situation. instead of saying she is a great girl. So wonderful to spend time with. Such a great woman. So beautiful. So sweet but I have NOTHING to offer her she deserves better, he took advantage. Be happy he has let go. And dont chase him any more. Its never good to chase ANY man. Never good to beg them or try to get them to spend time with you. You are a lovely woman and anyone who doesnt appreciate you isnt worth your time. Yes you are lonely right now but you will reconnect with your old friends or find new ones. Yes losing love hurts. But if this isnt the first time, it wont be the last. This man is not the one for you. Try your best to put it behind you and move forward. Beautifully written jj33. I would like to add - if you're still reading this Bubbleskeeps023 - this man is in no position to give you the future you deserve and ke knows that, simply because you two are in very different stages in life and he just cannot wind the time back. He would not risk losing the stability of what he's worked for the whole life and plunging into choas, and it's not because he didn't love you enough, but because of fear - people at this stage of life do need stability and safety, as their health begins to deteriorate (and this also negatively affects their sex life). And like jj33 said, chasing a man doesn't get you nowhere and can make him sort of lose interest - that is the nature of the beast. But you're in so much better position than he is - you're just starting your life, everything's still ahead of you, and for sure many nice men will come into your life (as difficult as it is for you to believe that now when you're pining for this one - but one day he'll be history). Use this experience to your advantage. A R with much older man must have helped you learn a few things about life and about yourself and what you want, which guys your age wouldn't be able to show you. When time heals your pain this experience will benefit you. All the best.
WowReally Posted September 5, 2010 Posted September 5, 2010 19 and 52... uuuuhhhh. So easy to manipulate. If you were my daughter and found out, I would annihilate this parasite. Physically, emotionally and financially. It takes two to tango... 19 or 22 it's all legal! Older men are not always wiser/more mature either...infact most of the men that I know dont act much older than 25 yr olds and they are older! Funny how twitterpated people get...can't see the forrest through the tree
BB07 Posted September 5, 2010 Posted September 5, 2010 It takes two to tango... 19 or 22 it's all legal! Older men are not always wiser/more mature either...infact most of the men that I know dont act much older than 25 yr olds and they are older! Funny how twitterpated people get...can't see the forrest through the tree I think you are the one who is having problems seeing the forest. You are obviously young yourself, right? Do you have a relationship with someone who is considerably older than yourself? JJ............as usual your advice was right on and so kind and thoughtful. I hope this young woman takes it to heart and chalks it up to experience and starts living and doing the things that a young woman her age should be doing.
Author bubbleskeeps023 Posted September 6, 2010 Author Posted September 6, 2010 thanks for all your advices... i'll try my best to do those for myself... just wanna let u all know that there is no money involved.. i am very much capable of buying things on my own... sigh... i just love him..
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