Noctis Posted September 3, 2010 Posted September 3, 2010 Okay so I had been with this girl almost 5 years in November. I met her at an event, and I was really nice to her, and when she had fell I picked her up. So she IM's me a few weeks later, and we go out within two months. I proposed to her in 2007, and things were good up to this year. We live about 4 hours away from one another. She had lost her Grandmother, and had received some money. Well this money really changed her a lot, but I still loved her regardless. She spent some of it on me, but didn't complain. A few months later she starts complaining she spends too much on me, but it's not nearly 10% of what I spent on her. So she broke up with me, and then I got a job again. It went okay for about a month, but then she was still upset thinking I lied about the job. She came to me on a messenger, and told me she thinks it should be officially over, and that I could find another girl more compatible for me. Then signs off. Well next day she IM's me again, and sends texts to me saying Hi randomly that she was bored. So we talk, and have been talking since a week ago when we broke up. She keeps posting things on Facebook that say things like "I wonder if you miss me as much as I miss you." And other things of the sort about love. She also told my friend that she still cares about me, but won't go back to me that she wants to be single for a while. She's only requested like one thing back that I was storing for her, but nothing else important. She asks me to pay her back, and I told her I would this weekend it's only $200. She's in a new relationship with someone else younger than her. It was only a week after we broke up, but she didn't want me to know this no matter what. A friend of mine had told me who it was, and all. So my questions are: Is she still wanting to be with me, but not showing it, or saying it? Or is she completely over, and done with me? I've tried showing I don't mind the break up, and that I agreed with it. I'm trying to give her as much space, and time as needed as well. But yeah, I really love her, and she means everything to me.
Don Ho Posted September 3, 2010 Posted September 3, 2010 She's in a new relationship with someone else younger than her. It was only a week after we broke up, but she didn't want me to know this no matter what. A friend of mine had told me who it was, and all So you wrote a whole long, hard to follow page and then just happened to bury this "little" tidbit of information in it? And you wonder why she bailed?
Username37 Posted September 3, 2010 Posted September 3, 2010 First of all, she was trying to hide the fact she was already in a new relationship a WEEK after you broke up. She didn't want you to hurt more. So in a way she cares but at the same time she doesn't (she wouldn't jump into anything new right away if she really did love and care about you.) She's rebounding, yeah it won't work but that doesn't mean she'll come crawling back. Rebounds don't work but they help them move on. Sorry man, go NC. Good luck to you.
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