pandagirl Posted September 2, 2010 Posted September 2, 2010 For the most part, I am "OK" with my recent breakup with my LDR ex. I know things weren't good. I know it doesn't mean he doesn't love me. Sometimes you can't change the circumstances. I know I will be fine. But, every time I think about all the things we never got to do together (Christmas, NYE, birthdays, vacation, etc.) I burst into tears. We talked about all these things, meeting my parents, going to my hometown... They never happened and now they never will. These might seem like trivial things, but they're things you take for granted when you live with your SO. I can't imagine that I'll never share these things with him. Ever. It really breaks my heart. I feel robbed.
madjac74 Posted September 2, 2010 Posted September 2, 2010 Never say never! I went two weeks thinking my relationship was over...no contact. Out of the blue she wishes me a happy birthday...we start talking again...she comes to visit me and we have an amazing time and now we are still together. You dont know what the future holds. In the meantime stay busy. Go see a movie, be with friends, vent your emotions
lala82 Posted September 2, 2010 Posted September 2, 2010 I understand your situation. I split up with my bf last week. I have not spoken with him for a while. I have been quite upset as well, because this year is going to be our first Christmas away. I lived with him; in fact we were together for more than 3 years. We spent Christmas together, NYE, our b-days, Valentine’s Day, anniversaries and holidays. For me it is hard to know that I will not do many things with him this year. When I think on him I want to cry as well. But I try to keep myself busy and meet my friends have helped me a lot and try to do not thing on him a lot. It is normal to be sad after split up with someone. However, try to get yourself busy, go out with some friends, read a book, something that keeps your mind busy. Otherwise, you will be very depressed and it will make things harder.
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