Green Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 The fair is gonna be here in two weeks. Should I just delay our "birthday celebration" thing until then? two weeks is a life time away. she can't even keep plans you made afew days ago. Start asking other girls out, ur to focused on this one girl that you should have tried kissing by now. If you ever do see this girl again KISS her. There will never be a right time if you keep up making excuses. Time to take matter into your own hands especialy when a little work means lots of FUN.
Author Kain Highwind Posted September 4, 2010 Author Posted September 4, 2010 two weeks is a life time away. she can't even keep plans you made afew days ago. Start asking other girls out, ur to focused on this one girl that you should have tried kissing by now. If you ever do see this girl again KISS her. There will never be a right time if you keep up making excuses. Time to take matter into your own hands especialy when a little work means lots of FUN. Even if its just like at school? (Probably not) And she would have kept the plans if she didn't get sick
Green Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 Even if its just like at school? (Probably not) And she would have kept the plans if she didn't get sick sure kiss her at school. tell her you want to tell her a secret... then lead her to a secluded area. then say you are going to wisper the secret and KISS HER. Also ASK OTHER GIRLS OUT... don't focus on this one girl who you don't have anything really going on with yet. Once you start kissing and you guys become gf/bf then focus on one girl... BUT NOW ASK MANY GIRLS OUT
Author Kain Highwind Posted September 4, 2010 Author Posted September 4, 2010 sure kiss her at school. tell her you want to tell her a secret... then lead her to a secluded area. then say you are going to wisper the secret and KISS HER. Also ASK OTHER GIRLS OUT... don't focus on this one girl who you don't have anything really going on with yet. Once you start kissing and you guys become gf/bf then focus on one girl... BUT NOW ASK MANY GIRLS OUT I will ask other girls out lol. Classes just started on Monday And I know I shouldn't be scared or overthink it but really? I mean, she woulnd't expect it at all and it'd be really sudden. Shouldn't it be led up to instead of just like "Come here" *kiss*. I mean, the only time I'd see her is inbetween our classes and that'd be like the last thing on my mind. Wouldn't it be better to lead up to it?
Author Kain Highwind Posted September 4, 2010 Author Posted September 4, 2010 I was thinking, if I do it at school, I just like walk her to class and when we get there, ask for a hug, and when she does, I kiss her and act like nothing happened, act like we do it all the time Good? My friend said to act surprised that I did it and that I wasn't really thinking. Probably a bad idea, right?
CLC2008 Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 This thread is very reminiscent of onegoal...
Cracker Jack Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 I was thinking, if I do it at school, I just like walk her to class and when we get there, ask for a hug, and when she does, I kiss her and act like nothing happened, act like we do it all the time Good? My friend said to act surprised that I did it and that I wasn't really thinking. Probably a bad idea, right? I think you're over-thinking this a bit. This should be something that just comes natural. I believe when you're with her and feeling just right--assuming the overall mood is well, you should just go in for the kiss. I honestly think planning it will make things more difficult.
Author Kain Highwind Posted September 4, 2010 Author Posted September 4, 2010 This thread is very reminiscent of onegoal... What's Onegoal?
CLC2008 Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 What's Onegoal? He was a poster who asked questions, and was repeatedly given suggestions, advise, and answers too, but he kept posting fictitious questions and comments so that the thread would continue with no end point.
Author Kain Highwind Posted September 4, 2010 Author Posted September 4, 2010 He was a poster who asked questions, and was repeatedly given suggestions, advise, and answers too, but he kept posting fictitious questions and comments so that the thread would continue with no end point. Oh. Well.. Since its the weekend and it didn't happen there's really nothing I can do until it happens lol
CLC2008 Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 Oh. Well.. Since its the weekend and it didn't happen there's really nothing I can do until it happens lol Well, judging by this thread, it doesn't appear as if it will.
Author Kain Highwind Posted September 4, 2010 Author Posted September 4, 2010 Well, judging by this thread, it doesn't appear as if it will. There was a setback today. >_> I was gonna do it
CLC2008 Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 There was a setback today. >_> I was gonna do it Yeah yeah sure.
Author Kain Highwind Posted September 4, 2010 Author Posted September 4, 2010 Yeah yeah sure. Its her fault lol. I didn't delay it
CLC2008 Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 Its her fault lol. I didn't delay it Okay, okay, yeah yeah sure...
MrNate Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 Okay, okay, yeah yeah sure... haha ah good ol' OpenGL. He started many an interesting thread.
Green Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 He does better then I ever did in HS. I asked a girl for her number... then I called it like 3 times and left a msg she never called me back... from that point foward i never talked to her again. Thats the story of the one girl I tried something with back in HS.. So your doing way better then I ever did. I knew everything I know now... but as a teenager you are your own worst enemy when it comes to women. Just be happy with the knowledge of how much more confident you will get with this stuff as you get older. Go for the kiss though... you really can't fail. Even if she vomits after you kiss her... atleast you did it! (she'll probably like it even if she acts like she doesn't) (I think u should act shocked that you enjoyed it so much... like a happy shocked) (remember be yourself and stop looking for so much advice and overthinking everything... the key is not caring... and just being happy.
Author Kain Highwind Posted September 4, 2010 Author Posted September 4, 2010 He does better then I ever did in HS. I asked a girl for her number... then I called it like 3 times and left a msg she never called me back... from that point foward i never talked to her again. Thats the story of the one girl I tried something with back in HS.. So your doing way better then I ever did. I knew everything I know now... but as a teenager you are your own worst enemy when it comes to women. Just be happy with the knowledge of how much more confident you will get with this stuff as you get older. Go for the kiss though... you really can't fail. Even if she vomits after you kiss her... atleast you did it! (she'll probably like it even if she acts like she doesn't) (I think u should act shocked that you enjoyed it so much... like a happy shocked) (remember be yourself and stop looking for so much advice and overthinking everything... the key is not caring... and just being happy. I'm 20 lol And just one more thing. Should I call her today and ask to reschedule my birthday celebration for tomorrow (since its a long weekend) or should I just wait for her to do it?
Green Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 I'm 20 lol And just one more thing. Should I call her today and ask to reschedule my birthday celebration for tomorrow (since its a long weekend) or should I just wait for her to do it? What do you think you should do. is it your 21st bdaY?
Author Kain Highwind Posted September 4, 2010 Author Posted September 4, 2010 What do you think you should do. is it your 21st bdaY? No Its just that we were gonna hang out for it and she said we had to reschedule since she was sick. Couldn't decide if I should call her and ask when or if I should wait for her to call me (Since she's the one that suggested it anyway). I'm thinking of seeing if she'll call today and if not, call tomorrow
Green Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 No Its just that we were gonna hang out for it and she said we had to reschedule since she was sick. Couldn't decide if I should call her and ask when or if I should wait for her to call me (Since she's the one that suggested it anyway). I'm thinking of seeing if she'll call today and if not, call tomorrow I think you have to just make these decisions on your own. If you ask friends and people like us for advice on every little move it just means your overthinking. Just be confident, TRY TO HAVE FUN... be horny and excited instead of scare.. BE YOURSELF... 1) ask girls out 2) kiss them Don't be afraid to make mistakes or get rejected. I think you should just figure this stuff out for yourself and be REAL don't try to be this fake guy who you think she'll like... be yourself and be happy and have fun. Don't overthing just decide this stuff for yourself. Good luck
CLC2008 Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 He does better then I ever did in HS. I asked a girl for her number... then I called it like 3 times and left a msg she never called me back... from that point foward i never talked to her again. Thats the story of the one girl I tried something with back in HS.. So your doing way better then I ever did. I knew everything I know now... but as a teenager you are your own worst enemy when it comes to women. Just be happy with the knowledge of how much more confident you will get with this stuff as you get older. Go for the kiss though... you really can't fail. Even if she vomits after you kiss her... atleast you did it! (she'll probably like it even if she acts like she doesn't) (I think u should act shocked that you enjoyed it so much... like a happy shocked) (remember be yourself and stop looking for so much advice and overthinking everything... the key is not caring... and just being happy. I didn't realize he was in highschool. Sorry op, I guess that would better explain things.
Green Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 I didn't realize he was in highschool. Sorry op, I guess that would better explain things. he's 20 I thought he was in HS. But still thats young.
CLC2008 Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 he's 20 I thought he was in HS. But still thats young. Indeed, ah too be young.
Green Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 Indeed, ah too be young. Yes he should enjoy it. But I also enjoy being done with college and stuff like that.
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