manchild Posted September 1, 2010 Posted September 1, 2010 wow it is so hard we talked or stayed in contact for two months after break up just a little etc.then she told me we need try to let go cause it was to hard and not fair to her new bf or whatever so i said to myself then im going NC but crap last night and today lots of thoughts and man it sucks i have my story out there if yall wanna read. neways sucks!!!!
V4Vanna Posted September 1, 2010 Posted September 1, 2010 I commend you and her for making this move - it IS the right move! And although it hurts, and will continue to hurt, you are doing the right thing for both of you. Allowing the connection to stay strong by continuing to talk her did neither of you good..it just prolonged the heartbreak and hurt. You're finally dealing with the actual 'break-up,' something that should have resulted two months ago when you broke-up. It will be painful and it will hurt but please stay strong and continue NC. Try to get yourself active - join a club, join a fantasy league, get up and get out there. If anything know that you are doing the right thing for YOU (and in many ways her) but allowing both of you to move on - apart from each other. Keep it up - you can get through this.
Author manchild Posted September 1, 2010 Author Posted September 1, 2010 yea i know what you are saying i was already working out back in march so that contin ues but man why would i want to move on from this that i love so much and want back though thats what makes it hard why do people say it is important to let go and move on any success or whats theory there
V4Vanna Posted September 1, 2010 Posted September 1, 2010 yea i know what you are saying i was already working out back in march so that contin ues but man why would i want to move on from this that i love so much and want back though thats what makes it hard why do people say it is important to let go and move on any success or whats theory there There is not theory its just a long-proven fact that letting go and moving on does heal the hurt and the heart. It won't be instantaneous and it won't be over night but it will happen. Each ending causes a new beginning and as much as you might not want to be looking for the silver lining just yet - there is on there and you will be ok. It hurts and I'm sorry that it does but the pain is another form of healing - once it passes you will be better and you will be able to move on and find the love that you deserve.
Author manchild Posted September 1, 2010 Author Posted September 1, 2010 yea i know part of healing and old relationship is done man how grat would it be to have a new one with her fabulous together wow always knew what to do for each other now its like i have a disease etc...
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