wrecked Posted September 1, 2010 Posted September 1, 2010 I am 27 years old, a mother of 3. I have been married to my husband for 4 years. January of this year I caught him watching porn in the front living room. This was not the first time although it was the first time I found out he liked to watch animal porn. He was masturbating to a video of a dog having sex with a woman. I never knew he was into porn until I got pregnant with My 2nd child. At which point he stopped having sex with because he was disgusted by the fact of me being prego. This is when it all started. Again with my 3rd child same thing. Even when I am not pregnant he would rather be into porn than me.. I have a feeling the animal stuff has been going on for a long time. He says only after our 3rd baby was born.. She was born in NOV. I have tried for months to get over it. I asked him to go to therapy, hell it only took him 6 months to go. He says he hasn't watched any porn but I don't believe him. He calls me names and treats me like ****. I made the appointment for the lawyer today.I am still in shock after 9 months. You think you know someone and the next day they are into animals. Guys I am new and I am lost. My whole world is falling apart.. HELP!
iLovedHer Posted September 1, 2010 Posted September 1, 2010 Gosh that's awful. Good you didn't catch him f*cking a sheep on your bed. He needs a psychiatrist. No comment +.o
leftfield Posted September 1, 2010 Posted September 1, 2010 I really feel for you, you've discovered a pretty horrible truth about a person you thought you knew, and it's hardly surprising you're in shock. Watching that kind of thing, in the living room no less AND when you have children in the house, that really does lack class doesn't it. He calls you names and treats you like dirt too?! What a guy. Wrecked, I don't think I really need to tell you this: your husband is a total dick. Leave him to his dog porn and get yourself and your children out of there! How any man can be disgusted by the site of his pregnant wife, while at the same time thinking it's cool to watch skanky women being penetrated by animals is utterly beyond my comprehension. The man is not worth your time or attention. I know it's difficult to think about breaking up a marriage, especially when children are involved, but this guy is weird. Get rid of him!
Author wrecked Posted September 1, 2010 Author Posted September 1, 2010 I cannot shift around my morals and standards any longer for this man.. I am amazed I did it in the first place. You are right. I have the appointment with the lawyers on Tuesday, I just don't want to wait that long to start the process. He made dinner last night but not for me. I make dinner and I have never treated him like that. I don't know why I was so surprised at the lack of repect butit just hurts. I am not a perfect 10 but am far from a 0. It really has woren me out. Thank you for showing me that I am not alone in my thinking. THANK YOU!
Gironbachs Posted September 1, 2010 Posted September 1, 2010 If this whole entire unbelievable saga is actually true, I don't understand what you are doing here. You don't sound like anyone who is "in shock", this whole thing sounds like BS.
skydiveaddict Posted September 1, 2010 Posted September 1, 2010 I didnt know such videos even existed. You might try counseling but if you're ready to be rid of him I certainly wouldnt blame you.
allawishis Posted September 1, 2010 Posted September 1, 2010 I can honestly say that most, or at least a good portion of men, watch porn or some form of it. It is a natural thing, and most people are just very secretive of it. In fact it is the number 1 largest internet business. That says something. With that being said ANIMALS? Now that is something different. I could see one time being curious, but actually masterbating to it and getting off on it? Ewww, that's just wrong in my mind. He has a serious illness of some sort. Being disgusted of you when your prego, oh but animals that's ok. What the??? I feel for you and could understand how someone you think you know and love does something so far out. I am also going through a painful experience, please give me your insight as well. I do want to hear from a woman about this, only guys replied to my post so far. I posted something in the same section near your post under the name allawishis. Thanks
allawishis Posted September 1, 2010 Posted September 1, 2010 You are def not alone in your thinking. I just also read that he is being mean at YOU! What did you do? He should be kissing some serious ass and hoping your not vindictive and will tell his family and friends.
Author wrecked Posted September 2, 2010 Author Posted September 2, 2010 If this whole entire unbelievable saga is actually true, I don't understand what you are doing here. You don't sound like anyone who is "in shock", this whole thing sounds like BS. You don't have to believe me. I am not here seeking that. I am trying to figure out if I am doing the right thing. So thank you for your comment.
Author wrecked Posted September 2, 2010 Author Posted September 2, 2010 You are def not alone in your thinking. I just also read that he is being mean at YOU! What did you do? He should be kissing some serious ass and hoping your not vindictive and will tell his family and friends. You think he would try to kiss my ass but he hasn't. When I caught him in Jan he went to a hotel for 2 nights. He begged me to come back and said he would get help and do anything to save our marriage. Needless to say it took him 6months to make the appointment for therapy. I didn't want to make it for him because he needed to show some effort. It took 6months. I am not a mean person. I would never go around telling others about his issues. I have yet to tell my closet friends. I wish this was a nightmare! I am so sad to leave him. I know that sounds dumb and makes no sense after all the pain he has put on me but I never want him to hurt. I feel like he will do something stupid. I pray not. I know I can no longer live like this. I need to live! I need to be happy and free from his demons. You have no idea how badly this hurt and disgusted me. No idea!
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