CupidsPosionedArrow Posted September 5, 2010 Share Posted September 5, 2010 My first thought. ^^ He probably couldn't get it up with a 110 pound 20 year old. I find it unbelievable that people are saying a 63 year old woman that is a size 10 is overweight. I'd love to see how fit all of you are at 63 after 3 kids. It's call viagra.. lol http://www.singletracks.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/viagra-pills.jpg I'm just wondering if she ever asked him to look in the mirror. That ain't a a wool sweater, he's wearing that's wrinkly sack bag of a thing he calls his back. Of course there is more going on than just sex, but she didn't share that with us so ... I think she should post some pics, we can then judge.. no faces of course .. lol Link to post Share on other sites
BB07 Posted September 5, 2010 Share Posted September 5, 2010 My DH and I have been together for 30 years, married for 22. The first 7 years we were like magnets.. couldn't get enough of each other. Then we got married & things started to cool. Less & less frequent sex until now, it's been 6 months. You younger people won't believe that a woman of 63 can be passionate & yearn for sex, but I feel the same as I did at 25. My DH says that my body turns him off. I'm 5'7 and 155 lbs, and I don't feel like I'm overweight. I'm a size 10 and have a pretty face, get regular mani/pedi, nice hair, dress well. So what the HECK does he want? Do all men have this Playboy fetish where they think their wives should look like 23 year old models all their lives? I have had 3 children, I admit that I don't work out regularly, but I have other things to occupy my life. I'm thinking that I'd just rather hang out with girlfriends I can have fun with and who appreciate me for who I am, instead of being with a hypercritical man who expects the impossible. I haven't read all the responses you've gotten yet but I wonder if your hubby is using this as an excuse. Perhaps he doesn't want to admit to him maybe having a physical issue or that his libido is down and it has nothing at all to do with you. Personally I would think him telling you that your body turns you off as cruel, but of course how he said it does come into play. How did he say it? How is the rest of your relationship? Of course you should ignore the responses from the much younger crowd who are critical of your weight. It sounds like you take care of yourself and take pride in your appearance, that is what is important. Hugs..... Link to post Share on other sites
GooseChaser Posted September 5, 2010 Share Posted September 5, 2010 Maybe marriage counseling would help? Link to post Share on other sites
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