ohinohio Posted September 1, 2010 Posted September 1, 2010 Okay so we broke up during the vacation between university terms, and I have to live with her as a housemate next month. We broke up and made up constantly during the vacation (we go long distance at this point), until she decided that she wanted to be 'single', got with a guy, realised what she had to beg for me to take her back, to then change her mind again 3 days later...I initiated NC, and its been like this for 2 weeks, her contacting me twice, the first, ringing me to ask me something she could have easily found out from another housemate, and was an overall short, pointless message, and the second to ask if I'd sold her computer on eBay for her like I said I would before we split. How would I go about getting her back, should I be 'friends' with her like she said she wanted to be (although this 'friendship' was basically our relationship without the relationship - shopping/gym together etc).
Trovador Posted September 6, 2010 Posted September 6, 2010 If you don´t want your life, and hers, be a living hell, don´t go NC... you see, it is not hard to maintain LC without being friends entirely... with the little info you have posted about her I don´t see her like a person you must go full NC, it is like if you wish to punish her or something... maybe she wants you but not the relationship... my advice is to take it easy, don´t be a jerk and be available to all options, mainly because you are going to be close and you don´t know if someday you will need a favor from her...
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