dragonwave Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 I would apologize to myself for having betrayed my own personal sense of right and wrong. I lost my sensibilities (for me) in entering into an affair and my moral compass was severly off kilter. There are moments in life when we follow our heart, but there are also moments when we should follow our head. Regretfully, I did follow my head (between my ears). While the affair ended, and thankfully Ex-MM is working on her marriage, I would also apologize to the BS for entering into terrain that was not mine to place foot. DOn't think he knows of the affair but I know of it. I dont know about others here, while I have taken time to be reflective and understand what caused me to go down the affair road and ultimately learn the lesson from this experience...I still feel shame about my actions and my betrayal to myself of my own integrity.
bohogirl Posted September 4, 2010 Posted September 4, 2010 I would apologize to myself for the way I allowed myself to get lost, and settle for a situation that was clearly not honoring who I was and how I deserved to be treated. I second this comment. I have an awful habit of being too hard on myself.
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