RisingAgain Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 Wow where do i start? i started dating a man one year ago its exactly one year this month. Yes we have had our fights ups & downs too but we always pulled through. However this month we started fighting on and off but this time it was bad, i dont want to put you through the whole story but we both talked badly, now when i decided to leave i regretted it later and realised he is the love of my life. I stumbled upon this website and started reading and NC was a new concept to me but is actually helpful. The only thing is this, at five am this morning i had a moment of weakness and called him crying and asking him to take me back of which he said no,no,no. I knew he wanted me to beg him which i did, i felt so stupid after i did so, now i feel like he has the power and i feel so bummed right now. i swore i would never talk to him ever again but whenever he texts me, i find myself replying like a fool...... please people help me!!! i had to delete him from facebook, i want to change my number because i know myself in a moment of weakness ill just be calling him and i feel so bad when i realize he has not replied my texts or called me. he is actually 8 yrs younger than me! please help i need to move on....
Don Ho Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 That's ok that you had a moment of weakness, but you should have posted here and vented instead of calling him. This is EXACTLY why you DO NOT contact and Ex!! You're almost always going to get an earful of stuff you do not want to hear. It's like you NEVER meet and Ex unless they have begged to have YOU back and YOU want to try again. Yes, change your number and all your contact info. Delete all his contact info including his phone number and do not memorize it. If you have another moment of weakness, post here!
Author RisingAgain Posted August 31, 2010 Author Posted August 31, 2010 oh thanx don. I actually feel better by every hour that passes i was feeling this pit in my stomach, but now im much better. How can one hurt that much? Now he sent me a message or rather text checking up on how im doing. Wat total bs! And feels better because i wont reply. You should have heard me begging i dint know myself. Thanx dear.
Don Ho Posted August 31, 2010 Posted August 31, 2010 "Discover how I got my ex back and never have to worry about relationship problems ever again: http://www.payzeno.com/a/samkashi/19 Nice pitch. I think the only "miracle" about it is that you buy it. LOL
Author RisingAgain Posted September 1, 2010 Author Posted September 1, 2010 Nice pitch. I think the only "miracle" about it is that you buy it. LOL ROTFLMAO - ''miracle''
Don Ho Posted September 1, 2010 Posted September 1, 2010 oh thanx don. I actually feel better by every hour that passes i was feeling this pit in my stomach, but now im much better. How can one hurt that much? Now he sent me a message or rather text checking up on how im doing. Wat total bs! And feels better because i wont reply. You should have heard me begging i dint know myself. Thanx dear. Hey Rising. Glad you're feeling a bit better. It comes and goes, so hang in there. Oh, it hurts. That's normal. We can't fix that one, only time can do that. DO NOT respond to his contacts with you! Good! Keep not responding. Now he thinks you're pathetic and he has to make sure you're ok. Barf. That's ok that you feel like a fool now, that will help keep you from contacting again!
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