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[ichabod66]

Okaay soo this isnt mii first post and yu guys prolly alredy read mii other one idk but anyways i have a new prob now yeaa im not even suure if its in tha right category! well okaay this is extremly long soo i apologizing now but plz bare wit me and read this. i need anwsers on wat yu guys think.

 

 

alright soo if yu havnt read mii other post ill go ahead and fill yu in basically to make tha long stort short mii bf started all of a sudden acting relii distant and mean toward mee. He wuld start to call me less & less & neverr textd anymore soo i was pretty scared that he had fallin out of love wit me or went and found sumbody else or sum. Well anyways i did tha whole no contact thing for a daay and he kept callin,callin&callin . Just blowing up mii fone.So when i finally gave in and anwsered it he seemed relii mad that i had been ignoring him all daay. That just escalated into another arguement & he called me a bitch and all this other stuff. Soo i was like wateverr seriously i dnt need a guy thats guna treat me like this. That was the last straw for mee. Soo that night i gathered up all his things that he had left at mii house and let me borrow over the year and put it in a bag and made plans to see him that night to give it to him and when i got there and gave it to him he seemed kinda confused on y i was doin that and i told him i was done and that i deserved better. I dnt guess he thought anything was wrong wit how hes been treating me lately cuz he seemed very shocked when i told him I dnt wana be wit him anymore and he immediatly started cryin,tryin to hug me, kiss me & say hes srry and i was like noo whateverr. He kept askin for a sec chance and he said he wuld start treating me better and that he was just depressed is y he was acting out like that. I didnt give in soo easily soo i told him i didnt know and that i wuld sleep on it. Tha next daay i took him back only becuz i relii relli luv this guy and he says he will change. I mean i know they all say that but he used to not act mean and stuff toward me. I mean we been goin out for a year and 2 months and hes always treated me wit respect and relii niice and holding tha doors for me and all that cheesy stuff lol soo for him to all of a sudden start acting like a douchebag was only temporarely and everr since i took him back hes been acting relii niice like he used too and everything is good except for theres only one prob he is such a sex freak i swearr thats all he tlks bout and tahts all he likes to TRY and do now. Before he started acting all mean we were having probs in tha sex department cuz i was relii stressed and we hadnt had sex in a month and he was freakin out bout it. He kept askin when r we everr guna do it again and it just got relii annoying and old so tha more he kept buggin me bout it tha moore he was pushing me away from doin it. I mean gurls dnt wana have sex every single time espcially when there goin thru a bunch of stuff and if yuu do then thats good for yuu buut other than that idk i just wana be loved right now ya know hes just not seeing mii piont of view. liike ive been soo hurt and depressed lately wit everything goin on wit us and now that everything is finally okaay its like i dnt wana rush into having sex again im just glad hes treating mee better ya know. Soo anywayss noww that we made up and everything is good he keeps bringing that back up and idk he used to not be like this well maybe that was becuz we wuld have sex alot and everr since i cut it off hes been buggin out about it. We used to be super affectionate when it came to having sex I used to neverr think nothing of it but now that i have been at mii worst and very depressed and stressed out alot and not being in tha mood to do it thats just all hes been wanting lately. idk if its just becuz hes relii sexually frustrated cuz hes not getting any and its just normal to be like this. idk Im just wonderin if thats all he even relii cares for in tha relationship. I mean i know this guy loves mee or did love mee at one time. He maay be just putting on an act now just so he can get some. Idk but we used to just be soo close and comfortable wit each other i culd do or say anything wit him and sex was only brought up at times when we wuld do it and it was neverr an issue and we go out and do things and have tha best time with each otherr but now it just seems like sex is tha main issue at this piont. Idk wat do yu guys think? maybe im just over reacting. he is a sex freak tho hes a little horndog hes always been like that buut now its like he freaks out when im not having sex wit him its like he doesnt see it from mii piont of view and it scares mee. i just hope thats not tha only thing he wants from me. I know its been over a year yu wuld think i wuld know if hes using me by now or not. buut ive never cut sex off for that long before i mean noo we wuldnt do it every single time he wuld want to. I had mii days where i wuld saay no but im just sayin this is tha longest we have gone witout bein sexual and soo his reaction is kinda scaring me. Like yerr suppose to love mee and just be there for mee when im down not be all like ooh everything is guna be okay babe soo when are we guna have sex again! i mean ya know! soo shuld i be concerned wit how hes taking it or is that just how any guy wuld react? idk buut i need sum kind of anwsers soo plz help me out and btw i amm sooo soo super srry i made this relii long and if yerr still readin this i thank yuu cuz i know im not tha best writer and i dnt word things right buut just bare wit me guys anyways i hope sumone can tell me sumthing. thank!!<3

[PegNosePete]

You'll get a lot more and better responses if you write in a proper language. You don't need perfect spelling and grammar especially if English isn't your first language, but seriously, it takes 3x as long to read it the way you've written it, and most readers simply won't bother trying.

[ichabod66]

You'll get a lot more and better responses if you write in a proper language. You don't need perfect spelling and grammar especially if English isn't your first language, but seriously, it takes 3x as long to read it the way you've written it, and most readers simply won't bother trying.

 

Well then... srry! i just wanted some anwsers not someone to judge the way i write! Its not event that bad yu can still make out wat everything says! geeze! and its a relii long story soo either waay sweetheart it still wulda came out that long just maybe not exaclly that long becuz i have a habbit to add double the letters like noo and mii lol anywayss yu guys im srry if yu are just some kind of freak and have a prob with that!!<33 buut i still need anwsersss!!!

[PegNosePete]

I wasn't judging, I was just giving some friendly advice. If you write properly then more people will read it, and take your posts more seriously. As it is, it looks like it's written by a 12 year old. Just a tip to get you more responses... no insult or judgement intended... no need to get defensive...